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Old 10-11-2012, 03:12 PM
 
Location: Australia
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And frankly, a number women literally write the exact same thing in their personal ads. "Are there any nice guys left?" "Prove me wrong" A number of scorned women literally ask for the same thing from men. I'd be happy to try and prove a scorned woman wrong, provided i found one i liked and she gave me the chance.
You'd have to be a nice guy to be able to do that.

All your complaining...I'd like to ask, what exactly do you have to offer a woman? A suspicious mind, an ungenerous spirit, low expectations?

The lady is going to go for the non complainer, every single time.

 
Old 10-11-2012, 03:15 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Seems you have quite a bit of options find a woman you like who will give you chance in the number of women who literally write the exact same thing, assessing your standards and what you have to offer in return (attractiveness, wealth, status, personality), escorts, prostitutes, foreign women or mail order bride.

Perhaps try taking action on one of those options.
Can't tell if you're trolling or your actually suggesting that he go for a mail order bride? If he doesn't have enough socio-economic status to attract women in a regular context, what makes you think he'll afford all those other options? I mean, the reason I always saw alot of Filipino or Thai ladies go off with balding middle aged Australian or American types wasn't for romance, it was for financial security and hope for a better life for her future kids.
 
Old 10-11-2012, 03:18 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Can't tell if you're trolling or your actually suggesting that he go for a mail order bride? If he doesn't have enough socio-economic status to attract women in a regular context, what makes you think he'll afford all those other options? I mean, the reason I always saw alot of Filipino or Thai ladies go off with balding middle aged Australian or American types wasn't for romance, it was for financial security and hope for a better life for her future kids.
I do get the feeling there is a twinge of sarcasm in the whole mail-order-bride comment.
 
Old 10-11-2012, 03:21 PM
 
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Honestly I just don't care to try anymore.

I can go to bars. It got me nowhere the last dozens or hundred times I went. If there were meet up groups here I might be interested in joining one or 2, but there isn't any. Mostly old folks and addicts in this area, or married, middle aged couples and married right out of highschool couples.

Though I think I've stopped complaining about it. Or at least, I complain less lol. I just have to accept it and do what I can to live.
 
Old 10-11-2012, 03:22 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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You'd have to be a nice guy to be able to do that.

All your complaining...I'd like to ask, what exactly do you have to offer a woman? A suspicious mind, an ungenerous spirit, low expectations?

The lady is going to go for the non complainer, every single time.
Do you have any constructive purpose for your comments? Or are you sadistically enjoying yourself trying to make my self-esteem worse than it already is? I don't recall what i ever did to you, but clearly you are having quite some fun at my expense.
 
Old 10-11-2012, 03:24 PM
 
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Can't tell if you're trolling or your actually suggesting that he go for a mail order bride? If he doesn't have enough socio-economic status to attract women in a regular context, what makes you think he'll afford all those other options? I mean, the reason I always saw alot of Filipino or Thai ladies go off with balding middle aged Australian or American types wasn't for romance, it was for financial security and hope for a better life for her future kids.
I'm actually suggesting that he go for a mail order bride.

He may not have enough wealth to attract women in his country however he may have enough wealth to attract women in other countries. I know many middle-class guys in their 30s-40s who have 18 year old (?) Thai gals.

He may not need wealth to attract women in other country as there are many Ukrainian gals looking for a guy who is simply faithful and willing to commit as their country is a 'male paradise' where men can swap them out for other attractive gals. I know many lower middle-class guys with an attractive European gal simply because he wants to marry her.

* (?) Possibly as there are quite a few I'm unsure about.
 
Old 10-11-2012, 03:26 PM
 
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Do you have any constructive purpose for your comments? Or are you sadistically enjoying yourself trying to make my self-esteem worse than it already is? I don't recall what i ever did to you, but clearly you are having quite some fun at my expense.
Do you have any response for her question as to what you have to offer a wonderful woman in return for having to prove something to you because she has a vagina?

As for you don't recall what you ever did to her...you don't recall your vast array of generalizations, assertions, and portrayals about women?
 
Old 10-11-2012, 03:34 PM
 
Location: Australia
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Do you have any constructive purpose for your comments? Or are you sadistically enjoying yourself trying to make my self-esteem worse than it already is? I don't recall what i ever did to you, but clearly you are having quite some fun at my expense.
It's a valid question.

A normal response from a man would be to respond with a list of his positives, like "I can cook, I can massage, I am faithful, I am intelligent..."

But no, you come back with "you're being mean to meeeee"

This is why your therapy fails. You do not examine or take accountability for your own behaviour, you just curl up like a salted snail and play victim because it means you never take the blame for a thing.

You will continue in your miserable ways until you actually "man up" and stop being such a big baby. I bet my arse you're the youngest in the family, am I right?

 
Old 10-11-2012, 04:30 PM
 
Location: North NJ by way of Brooklyn, NY
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I think him and Nyanna would make a good couple as they both seem to play the victim role.

All joking aside, I'm wondering if maybe you're just lacking game. Maybe the way you approach women is off. You can go up to 1000 women over 10 years but if you're going about it all wrong, you will fail every time.

When you do try to talk to women, what are you saying? What are you doing?

I would also suggest asking a good female friend to give you an honest assessment. Maybe ask her opinions on what would work on her and would would not. What would need improvement. Sometimes the input of friends of the opposite sex can be invaluable.

Otherwise, I agree with the others. Complaining, whining and pouting in the corner is not going to get you anywhere, if anything, it's counter productive.
 
Old 10-11-2012, 04:39 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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It's a valid question.

A normal response from a man would be to respond with a list of his positives, like "I can cook, I can massage, I am faithful, I am intelligent..."

But no, you come back with "you're being mean to meeeee"

This is why your therapy fails. You do not examine or take accountability for your own behaviour, you just curl up like a salted snail and play victim because it means you never take the blame for a thing.

You will continue in your miserable ways until you actually "man up" and stop being such a big baby. I bet my arse you're the youngest in the family, am I right?

Nope, oldest.

Assuming from your screenname that you are a woman, every post you make just supports my point that women are mean and are lacking compassion.
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