Ok so its a bit of a sad story but i laugh at it now.
I have posted on here before about my situations but of course its a never ending saga!
to sum it up for you, Met girl in London for a few months, Me from Australia travelled to Canada as i love to travel to be with girl after 8 months apart, Living with her parents as well, didn't go to well, Lasted 1 month HAHA, Came home in an emotional wreck.
But did stop in Hawaii for a week and went skydiving ( Forgetting sarah marshal anyone?!) Ok sooooo its been nearly 3 months since i came home, The whole money issue didn't concern me i went back to work and earned what i lost from flights etc in a few weeks.
But of course it doesn't stop there, My ex was very regretful of what happened crying for days on end as i did have my fair share of tears it was a very sad time, I should of gave her the flick then and there right and moved on? Nah not me i kept talking over the 3 months because it reminded me of old times and kept me feeling good, I got quite emotional and said i could not handle it and tried to break it off a few times but never lasted longer than a week, she also tried once, i unfriended her on Facebook etc, but she contacts me via Whatsapp, i could just block her but its what we used for so long being apart but a tiny bit inside of me wants her to keep begging for me.
The tricky part is yet to come, The reason WHY we are still talking is because i am going back to Canada, Not for her of course but for myself i will be working at Whistler Blackcomb over the winter season i arrive in leave in 6 weeks time this is what i had planned from the very beginning as i couldn't just go over for her i had to have a decent reason i only went over early for the summer months and for our relationship to blossom.
Now this girl is a bit of a slag, She's hurt me quite a few times that i have sort of become immune to it.....in a way of course that it doesn't fully bother me anymore of what she is doing now that she is "single" which i have found out and she is seeing another guy, not in a relationship kinda way, in a whorish kinda way though it still hurts a bit, Ill admit i have had a fling or two since being home but it really kinda sucks and i dont feel good about it and i only did it in spite of hearing about her but she claims she's not phased by what she's doing and is going to keep doing till who knows! even when the guy is two timing her HAHA i actually laugh at it because she has very little respect for herself, she doesn't like him he's "an A$$hole" ya know stuff like that, the things most girls seem to like in most guys at a young age, not the ones that travel across the globe for you noooo of course not.
I actually asked her if she wanted to be "friends with benefits" in curiosity. She said thats all she has seemed to have done in the past and wouldn't mind doing it with me, It actually made me sick, i don't want that, I'm not in to that, and yes i did say iv had a fling since being home but they are all over i cant do it no more as its not me.
Ok as i said im leaving in 6 weeks and ill be in Vancouver for 2 nights before i get a tour bus up the mountain on the 1st of december starting work on the 3rd, now she claims she misses me and loves me using all the good stuff to try and see me, she says she will be waiting at the airport for me even when i said i dont want her to be there, i have not told her my flight details as i don't want to until i know its worth the fuss which will most likely be a few days before i arrive if i chose to tell her. But she can easily find out by looking on the website a day beforehand.
What do i do? I'm actually really scared to see her as i had such strong feelings for her i don't just travel across the world for anyone and she says she cares but it doesn't look like it but of course she is single so i cant get mad as she is just living her life! She wants to take me out to dinner and take me home for ya know old memories. But i think she's just doing it because she know she can win by using her sex appeal, and it really annoys me i really don't want to give her the satisfaction. But what then? I have no intentions of getting back with her, i will be partying my ass off in whistler no doubt about that!
Do i even bother with her, If she is waiting at the airport for me even when i say NO, i might just get dragged back in to her evil web. It's taken me a while to get over her and become a bit stronger, i do not worship the ground that she walks like i did months ago. Going to Whistler for 5 months is my cure to getting over her as i will be meeting and living with heaps of new girls and i absolutely cant wait!
So any advice? Do i really degrade myself to let her win for 2 nights and maybe a few catch ups over the season? Knowing that when i eventually leave Canada i will never see her again and it might break my heart again, but then if i don't see her i might regret it as we had such good memories? Or do i just give her the big Hand in the face don't argue and keep walking head held high??!! Sorry for the rant its been on my mind for a few weeks now and D-Day is getting closer.
P.s if you're heading up to Whistler this season ill be in the Tube Park come say hi! I don't bite. Im Aussie
Cheers guys for any advice!
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