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She lies straight to my face and I also believe she hides some things...typical woman probably tho
Well first of all what your girlfriend is doing is not "typical" of women. Why are you with her if she is doing things like this to you? You can never trust someone that lies all the time and steals or hides things of yours.
When you're in a 10 year relationship,7 married you can't just 'rid' yourself of the person...if there were many other reasons on top of that then that would be enough to move on.
The constant lying would be enough to send me packing, but you still never said what she lies about. Does she spend money and not tell you or does she go out with other men and not tell you? Big diff there. If she spends money and doesn't tell you then you guys need better communication. My husband used to get mad at me if I spent $10 on books so I didn't always tell him about that, but looking back I just think he was being a jerk. Are you being one? Give it some thought.
But that same husband was completely lying to me about his sexuality and he wanted a man and not a woman and after 25 years he came out. Who was the bigger liar? And, because my ex-husband was gay, I think typical men are liars and closet gays. Sounds pretty dumb when I say that, doesn't it? Good thing that I don't believe that.
As for getting out of a relationship, it's totally worth it if it's not working. I am happier now than I've been in years and while I would like a man in the bed next to me, I also don't have to worry that if I want to go out of town that I can't or would feel funny about it, and I can spend as much money on books as I want to.
The constant lying would be enough to send me packing, but you still never said what she lies about. Does she spend money and not tell you or does she go out with other men and not tell you? Big diff there.
No the money thing is pretty straight,and she doesn't go out much and doesn't seem to be interested in other men...it's just the small things,but they can add up and also the fact that she feels the need to lie instead of be straight is always a concern.
No the money thing is pretty straight,and she doesn't go out much and doesn't seem to be interested in other men...it's just the small things,but they can add up and also the fact that she feels the need to lie instead of be straight is always a concern.
Well what does she lie about?
And do you think she lies because she's afraid of the reaction she might get?
It would help to have an idea of what the lies are about and what your reaction is.
And do you think she lies because she's afraid of the reaction she might get?
It would help to have an idea of what the lies are about and what your reaction is.
Like I said,smaller things to not so smaller things...there were times where I knew she was smoking pot with her teenage son yet she maintained she hadn't done it in awhile. Other times it was just small everyday things she would deny seemingly out of habit,which is the reason I'm concerned there may be some pathological tendencies there.
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