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Old 10-03-2012, 12:00 AM
 
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Im driving home from my night class in my mom's Lexus. Im pulling into the station and a white woman filling up her white BMW 5 series smiles at me. I thought it was kinda odd, but I pulled up at the pump next to her.

She says hello, and I ask her how she is doing, and she says she just got back from Vegas for a trade show. She is really exhausted, doesn't like her job etc etc.

We continue talking about work etc. We talk about our cars (yes, I told her it was my Lexus, not my mom's) and she said she hates her BMW, always getting repaired.

I was really surprised/pleased with how things were going, so I asked for her number and if she wanted to get together sometime to get to know each other better. She said she is seeing someone, but she was going to break it off soon anyways.

I didn't have my phone on me, for the first time ever, I left it at home. So she wrote her number on a piece of paper.

Then we parted ways. One of the most relaxing convos Ive had with a woman, 1 because she approached me, and 2 cause she was older.

When should I text her?
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Old 10-03-2012, 12:08 AM
 
Location: Central California
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Good job not stalking your ex-teacher and meeting a new girl.

Wait til tomorrow, then text her whatever you want. I find that it doesn't really matter what you text her. If she's gonna hang out with you, then she's gonna hang out with you.

Also, stop stressing. You shouldn't care enough about this to make a detailed forum thread about it.
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Old 10-03-2012, 12:24 AM
 
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stay away from trade show girls....they are either overworked, always gone or both. if your intention is just to wham bam her, go ahead and give her a quick text and see where it goes, but dont expect much
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Old 10-03-2012, 12:28 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Leave it 2 days then text.....then get yourself some cougar
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Old 10-03-2012, 01:18 AM
 
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Leave it 2 days then text.....then get yourself some cougar

thanks, ill try.
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Old 10-03-2012, 01:20 AM
 
Location: Central California
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Leave it 2 days then text.....then get yourself some cougar
2 day rule is stupid, brah.
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Old 10-03-2012, 01:25 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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2 day rule is stupid, brah.
A minimum of 2 days, anything less can come across as desperate and anticipation in them waiting doesn't hurt.
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Old 10-03-2012, 01:27 AM
 
Location: Central California
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A minimum of 2 days, anything less can come across as desperate and anticipation doesn't hurt.
LOL what book did you read that from?

Nothing wrong with texting the girl the next day....or....even the night of

Tried and tested
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Old 10-03-2012, 01:33 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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No book, experience both ends of it. No-one likes desperation, well virtually no-one.
But good for you that worked for you.
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Old 10-03-2012, 02:03 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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yes, I told her it was my Lexus, not my mom's
Does anyone still use the phrase "Epic fail" any more ?
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