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Old 10-04-2012, 05:47 AM
 
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This has always been an interesting question for me because its one of the rare ones that's almost 100 percent either way. Almost every woman I've ever asked in my life has said that she can't or wouldn't ever be intimate with her BF/Husband while upset with him. But on the flip side almost every man I've ever asked in my life has said the opposite. This goes across all different races and economic backgrounds. So I'm asking why do you think this is, have you seen different, and finally what's your take on it.

Are you ok with sex with your partner while your upset with them?
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Old 10-04-2012, 05:50 AM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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Personally if I'm pissed at someone I want nothing to do with them. So no.
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Old 10-04-2012, 06:09 AM
 
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This has always been an interesting question for me because its one of the rare ones that's almost 100 percent either way. Almost every woman I've ever asked in my life has said that she can't or wouldn't ever be intimate with her BF/Husband while upset with him. But on the flip side almost every man I've ever asked in my life has said the opposite. This goes across all different races and economic backgrounds. So I'm asking why do you think this is, have you seen different, and finally what's your take on it.

Are you ok with sex with your partner while your upset with them?
For me, sex always heals any anger. It's never been my way to go to bed angry, but that's just me.
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Old 10-04-2012, 06:26 AM
 
Location: NW San Antonio
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has to do with the argument, and why youre mad at each other. and the time between your anger and your lust. Love and Hate are two very strong emotions, so very easy when excited to switch from one to the other. Just like hot water turns to ice faster than cold water. The atoms are moving so fast already its easy for them to race harder, ergo, anger, and then the realization you love that person, and you quickly show it, therefore, MAKEUP SEX!! more energetic and passionate most times than honeymoon sex...
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Old 10-04-2012, 06:56 AM
 
Location: NY
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Are we talking about make up sex? Or just initiating sex in the heat of anger?

I would be far more likely to be intimate as we come to a resolution after a disagreement, than I would before that point. While I am upset, I don't want anything to do with intimacy, and prefer to be alone with my own thoughts to cool off and regain perspective. I'd say my wife is pretty much the same.
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Old 10-04-2012, 07:02 AM
 
Location: Texas
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No. If I don't like you right then, I don't want you touching me.
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Old 10-04-2012, 07:07 AM
 
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Are we talking about make up sex? Or just initiating sex in the heat of anger?

I would be far more likely to be intimate as we come to a resolution after a disagreement, than I would before that point. While I am upset, I don't want anything to do with intimacy, and prefer to be alone with my own thoughts to cool off and regain perspective. I'd say my wife is pretty much the same.
The difference with makeup sex is, you've made up. Your not angry with that person anymore. I'm not talking about that. But you've said that you wouldn't want to have sex with your wife your mad at her.
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Old 10-04-2012, 07:11 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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Surely these bolded quotes are a suggestion that someone is getting it wrong.

It's a fairly well recognized fact that most men have absolutely no idea how (or if ) a female brain works, so perhaps they're reading the situation wrong.

Angry sex can be awesome, but I've never met anyone who'd have sex while they were angry at you, only if they were angry in general and wanted to bonk it out of their system.......

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Almost every woman I've ever asked in my life
almost every man I've ever asked in my life
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Old 10-04-2012, 07:14 AM
 
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Surely these bolded quotes are a suggestion that someone is getting it wrong.

It's a fairly well recognized fact that most men have absolutely no idea how (or if ) a female brain works, so perhaps they're reading the situation wrong.

Angry sex can be awesome, but I've never met anyone who'd have sex while they were angry at you, only if they were angry in general and wanted to bonk it out of their system.......
Trust me, you'd be surprised
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Old 10-04-2012, 07:18 AM
 
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Sure. It just usually is not any good. Most normal men, don't want a partner who is unwilling, and mute. But, maybe some men would. Not any I would want to have a relationship with.
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