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Well I have been dating my boyfriend for awhile and I always go back to one incident that happen a few years ago with his old friend. .Anyway I remember finding pictures of her on his computer and his phone and he never had pics of me or anything and he would say she "sent" these photos to him. I never believed that but she also was the type of girl to talk and flirt with alot of guys. So then i find out she told him that he doesn't love her anymore and that she doesn't feel like they are friends. And he told her that he loved her and nothing could change that!! So since then I never felt like I was the one he really loved like i was "second choice. I don't feel the same anymore now I dont know what to do. Idk why I can't just forget about it:/
It's understandable you are concerned. He is receiving pictures of her and telling her he loves her. Many men and woman are friends and are in committed relationships, But this is pushing it. You need to sit him down and find out if he is committed to being with just you, And hear from his mouth honestly if he has feelings for her that are present. Do not let him just dismiss it as you not trusting him, Or being insecure. You mention "friend." Do they have a history together that goes beyond friendship as well?
Well I have been dating my boyfriend for awhile and I always go back to one incident that happen a few years ago with his old friend. .Anyway I remember finding pictures of her on his computer and his phone and he never had pics of me or anything and he would say she "sent" these photos to him. I never believed that but she also was the type of girl to talk and flirt with alot of guys. So then i find out she told him that he doesn't love her anymore and that she doesn't feel like they are friends. And he told her that he loved her and nothing could change that!! So since then I never felt like I was the one he really loved like i was "second choice. I don't feel the same anymore now I dont know what to do. Idk why I can't just forget about it:/
The incident happened a "few years ago" and you are STILL feeling like you are "second choice" but you STILL DON'T KNOW what to do about it and you didn't believe what he told you about the photos in the first place? Okay, start at the beginning, first why are you looking at his personal computer and his phone? None of your concern what is there, next if you did not believe him several years ago why are you still with him? Next, if you have felt like second choice since you found the photos several years ago why are you still with him? What part of this situation are you confused about?
Well I have been dating my boyfriend for awhile and I always go back to one incident that happen a few years ago with his old friend. .Anyway I remember finding pictures of her on his computer and his phone and he never had pics of me or anything and he would say she "sent" these photos to him. I never believed that but she also was the type of girl to talk and flirt with alot of guys. So then i find out she told him that he doesn't love her anymore and that she doesn't feel like they are friends. And he told her that he loved her and nothing could change that!! So since then I never felt like I was the one he really loved like i was "second choice. I don't feel the same anymore now I dont know what to do. Idk why I can't just forget about it:/
This happened a few years ago. Either get over it or move on.
And how did you "find" the pictures? Were you snooping on his computer and phone?
And how did you "find out" that he told her he loved her? Were you snooping around when you discovered that, too?
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