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Originally Posted by backwardsettenurb
I've been on dates with guys who seemed afraid to touch me, and that wasn't cute. A guy who takes charge and is clear about his attraction towards me through his actions is way more attractive. I know a ton of girls who would love to be pushed against a wall every once in a while by a guy overcome with passion. I don't know any girl who wants to be raped, though, and me and my friends talk pretty openly about our preferences. :P haha. Dominance and aggressiveness is one thing, but there is really a fine line between sexy and scary. Boundaries need to be established and respected. Light hair pulling = good. Slapping a girl around = not so much.
That's me. This whole sexual harassment thing has made me wary to even touch women. I think we're in the opposite extreme.
Interesting article. Maybe the old movies reflect FEMALE as much as MALE fantasies.
I dunno of any men who fantasize about raping, it's really an act of desperation (similar to using a prostitute). As a man, I like to feel wanted and desired. Whenever I role played the part of the "rapist" I always had problems keeping aroused. Now I don't bother, if a girl even hints at it I take it as we're sexually incompatible and move on.
Man wants woman. At first woman seems to rejects him, fights.etc, but then at least seems to give up and then passionately kiss him back. Maybe she was actually attracted to him but had to be coerced into displaying it. Either way this wouldn't fly today.
I'd say she was actually attracted to him. Some women love to fight and then make up with sex. Makes things exciting. :P
I'm so glad I'm not a woman! And you know I love the wimmin, but the crazy **** that (some) of y'all have got going on in your head and the biology behind it is a little repulsive. Why in the hell did I google this?
Yeah be dominant, grab her hair when she's bent over, smack her arse and turn it red. Be a little rough.
Unless she says otherwise, don't grab her neck and do some asfixiation crap. Don't assume that smacking her in the face is going to get her turned on. If she wants it rough, grab her by the shoulders and slam away and make her feel everything, or put her into a crazy position that she probably has never been in before.
I don't think I'll ever choke someone or smack someone in the face during, but just about everything else is game.
I'm so glad I'm not a woman! And you know I love the wimmin, but the crazy **** that (some) of y'all have got going on in your head and the biology behind it is a little repulsive. Why in the hell did I google this?
If you really examined these so-called rape fantasies closer, you would find that she wants it, which would mean it's not rape and not against her consent, and more importantly, what would cause her to be aroused (lubricated - sorry if this is vulgar) during sex. Not to mention if it's with her boyfriend/husband/lover she already knows, it is safe and not a violation.
Like someone said earlier, I think the fantasy is about overwhelming desire.
I definitely don't get women who feel like they have to experience pain in order to feel dominated.
I don't think I could ever date a woman who likes pain in the sack. I get a little rough when I rev up and dominate in bed and all, but I'd get turned off if she said "Smack me in the face!!!" or something like that.
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I'd say she was actually attracted to him. Some women love to fight and then make up with sex. Makes things exciting. :P
Yes I think it's some of that.
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Slapping a girl around = not so much.