How much are you upfront and honest.......

[Idon'tdateyou]

I am not honest. I wish I could be but am scared that the guy I like isn't interested so I don't led on that I am interested until lately. I am going to a Halloween party where he will be and I am hoping to drink a bit to tell him I desire him.

[NoDoubt1993]

I am very honest and upfront about who I am, what is important in my life, and what I'm looking for. I've found that seems to work best for me, because I've been complimented by guys many times that it's refreshing to come across someone who knows themselves so well. I do tend to play it cool in terms of sending out too much of a vibe about liking someone, but that's just because I'm old-fashioned by nature.

[branh0913]

I'm extremely upfront, but it has been a process. I have personally never felt comfortable telling anything less than the truth. Even if I have been lying I get so annoyed with it, that I will eventually tell the truth. But by the time that happens, the damage is done. I've found that it's better to be up front right away and not withhold things that are important. At least that way I don't get too heavily invested, and be disappointed if they don't accept something or they found out I was lying. For the most part, telling the truth is just way simpler, and for me way less stressful. Simpe and less stressful pretty much always a selling point for me.

[Inebriated Duck]

Very much so. In fact, probably too much so, I should learn to be less forthcoming, especially about my age.