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Old 01-17-2013, 05:16 PM
 
Location: DFW
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What goes around, comes around (sort of).

Doesn't bother me if she does when I'm not around or when I'm with her. Just invested in a few toys to help out because I know she like it.

Does it bother you guys or should I even ask ?

 
Old 01-17-2013, 05:24 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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If a woman doesn't masturbate, it usually means she doesn't know how to have an orgasm. If she's not able to have one by herself, she's almost certainly not going to be able to have one with a partner. She might even be under the mistaken belief that an orgasm is something men "give to" her, while she has no part in it. (It works that way for a few women, but very few.) This is sad, and usually leads to disappointment for all.

So, all of that is to say, not only do I not mind if a woman I'm with masturbates, I mind if she doesn't do so.
 
Old 01-17-2013, 05:27 PM
 
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If a woman doesn't masturbate, it usually means she doesn't know how to have an orgasm. If she's not able to have one by herself, she's almost certainly not going to be able to have one with a partner. She might even be under the mistaken belief that an orgasm is something men "give to" her, while she has no part in it. (It works that way for a few women, but very few.) This is sad, and usually leads to disappointment for all.

So, all of that is to say, not only do I not mind if a woman I'm with masturbates, I mind if she doesn't do so.
I dated a girl who didn't like masturbating and I have her many many O's, so that isn't always the case.

It doesn't bother me if she masturbates. I don't care to watch it though. Like I said before, it looks like she's playing the turntables.
 
Old 01-17-2013, 05:28 PM
 
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Any man who is jealous of a rubber toy has a serious power and control issue.
 
Old 01-17-2013, 05:31 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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I dated a girl who didn't like masturbating and I have her many many O's, so that isn't always the case.
Like I said, it works that way for a few, but a very few.

It's also important to remember that 1) Not everyone who says they don't masturbate really doesn't, and 2) Not everyone who convinces you they're having orgasms really is. I'm not saying either of these things were necessarily the case with you and the girl you dated, just that these are things that do happen.
 
Old 01-17-2013, 05:48 PM
 
Location: Santa Monica
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Any man who is jealous of a rubber toy has a serious power and control issue.
Have you seen some of the machines women use? They look like the next cyborg enemy in the latest Terminator movie.

 
Old 01-17-2013, 05:48 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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As long as it's an inanimate object getting turned out and not a person, I could care less.
 
Old 01-17-2013, 05:51 PM
 
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Her body...
My preference though is that she saves it.
Within reason...
 
Old 01-17-2013, 05:54 PM
 
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Any man who is jealous of a rubber toy has a serious power and control issue.
Any man who doesn't have power and control issues isn't a man...
 
Old 01-17-2013, 05:54 PM
 
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Her body...
My preference though is that she saves it.
Within reason...
Saves it for what? You?

Men don't seem to realise that we don't always want lovemaking or hot sex. Sometimes we want a private moment all to ourselves where we don't have to think of anyone except ourselves. Many women can orgasm much faster alone.

Your preference bears no meaning sorry, it's her body and she can pleasure herself as she pleases whether you like it or not.
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