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Old 10-20-2012, 11:06 AM
 
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You see how Brauwynn is? An elitist and it's sad that there are so many people like her. Look if you pay into the federal government and are not a government employee. You are ALREADY contributing more then all government employees! Who in the world get's the benefits and free time government employees get? Only the really rich!
Right. I'm the elitist because there should be no reason to charge the likes of Dave from talking smack about millions of women he will never meet or know. My question stands to him, to you, or any other man on this forum. Who are you to talk your sexist, bigoted shyte about women? As JJ mentioned, how in the world can an unsuccessful man, a man living at the poverty level, a man paying so little towards the functioning of this society, pass his judgement on other impoverished people. It's idiotic.

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Be nice Braunwyn, there is nothing insecure about an opinion. An opinion is just that. And it might not even be a serious opinion. So the fact that you get aggressive means you are the insecure one.
Yes, there is. You guys think the facts are elitist. You think the facts are aggressive. A person with half a brain can go to census and review the outcome of demographics. It's a fact of life.

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Who said I live in a ghetto area? I see rolls royce and bentley on a daily occurrence here. And you are not the only one that has lived all over in the US. I've lived in France, Mexico, Canada, Japan for a time being and I have visited nearly all fifty states in the country.
What is wrong with you? I was clearly responding to David with that post, and now you're yammering on about god knows what.
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Old 10-20-2012, 11:09 AM
 
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The problem with young professionals, besides the fact that in Orlando they are almost non-existent, is that young professional women, only date young professional men. I don't consider myself professional. I dont make $1000+ a week nor do I have a degree or interested in pursuing one. All my friends who have degrees have six figures in student loan debt and are unemployed. I'd rather be employed and "uneducated" then to have a degree, owe $150k in student loans and be unemployed

I wouldn't be in the league with those women until I reach management status with my current company I work for, which I'm not 100% sure will happen. But at the same time, I'm not good at anything else either and my job is secure so I want to stay where I'm at. At minimum it will be 3 years before I make management, which will start at about $40k. Even then, I could not date a woman who makes more money than me, that would be emasculating
I do think the advice given to you to just date professionals was bad advice. Your options are limited. With that said, for a man who has sex with transsexuals to state that it would be emasculating for you to date a woman who earns more than you is out of this world. That's some whacky thinking, but given your worldview and situation it makes sense.
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Old 10-20-2012, 11:23 AM
 
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Right. I'm the elitist because there should be no reason to charge the likes of Dave from talking smack about millions of women he will never meet or know. My question stands to him, to you, or any other man on this forum. Who are you to talk your sexist, bigoted shyte about women? As JJ mentioned, how in the world can an unsuccessful man, a man living at the poverty level, a man paying so little towards the functioning of this society, pass his judgement on other impoverished people. It's idiotic.


Yes, there is. You guys think the facts are elitist. You think the facts are aggressive. A person with half a brain can go to census and review the outcome of demographics. It's a fact of life.


What is wrong with you? I was clearly responding to David with that post, and now you're yammering on about god knows what.
Well now that I go back to that post. I see you were responding to David. My bad. Bad news. You're still psychotic.
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Old 10-20-2012, 11:30 AM
 
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Well now that I go back to that post. I see you were responding to David. My bad. Bad news. You're still psychotic.
Yea, any woman that does not kowtow to losers on the internet is psychotic. Uh huh. I'm sure that pov works out very well for you and your hookers.
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Old 10-20-2012, 11:36 AM
 
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Trashy people wear their pajamas out in public.
They have their back flab showing from the sides of their t-shirt.
They bend over and you can see their fat crack showing.
They give their children coke..but it's diet so it's better for them than the regular stuff
They're older women but still dress like teenage hookers.
They're 40 but look like they're 65 because they've smoked so much.

Just a little taste of what I see every day as an ER nurse.
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Old 10-20-2012, 01:19 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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Some women do that and some don't. Some men do it (like you) and some don't. People have various reasons to be angry, but it's irrelevant to the point. No man or woman can rationally generalize their personal experiences onto a population. Any attempts to do so by either only exhibits a lack of intelligence on the bigots part.

Just like a typical woman, there is no winning an argument with one so this will be the last time I apply to your drivel. I will say this though, since generalizing the female gender into what I have experienced in my own life makes me bigoted? Then I guess that makes every woman who's had their heartbroken a bigot too, women like to complain how horrible guys are much more than men do

The rest of your paragraph, like your posts, is a contradiction. These women you know are both single mom, welfare prostitutes, but they also have sugar daddies that take care of them. Get your story straight. Which is it? Further, you making the statement to me, a woman who has voted democrat and my tax burden is larger than your gross salary, that most women vote democrat because we cannot be self-sufficient is obviously absurd. There are more young women in college today than men. There are more women in medical school today than men. Therefore, your generalizations do not add up. If you want to point your finger you really should be doing it at both genders since neither is really ahead when it comes to responsibility.

You know you are absolutely right when you say that there are more young women in college then men, but I'll get to that in a moment. That is a real elitist attitude of you to be bragging that your "tax burden" is more than my annual salary. I might not make much but I bust my ass to make what I make. And you may be right about neither gender being ahead in terms of responsibility. A lot of guys in my neighborhood just go "P*ssy money weed, is all a n*gga need" are usually unemployed and have no ambition either. I do, I am in the process of building a great career for myself, WITHOUT A DEGREE!

It's really no different. You know low class people. You know prostitutes. That's your life. You and your life will be where you are. That you think your experiences and life is something the vast majority shares is ridiculous. And sorry, I don't see you as any more of a quality person than the women you complain about. It all looks trashy from where I sit.

Yes I do know low class people and I have known prostitutes in my life. That does not make me low class. I usually don't associate myself with low class people. My closest friends all have jobs are working towards careers just like me. And where the hell did I say the vast majority shares my beliefs?

Stop lying. Anyone that files taxes here will know that a gross income of 15k is not going to warrant a 10% fed withholding.

How do you know my gross will be $15K? I admit I made a mistake, I went back and did the math and about 13% of my total income goes to Fed withholding, Social Security, and Medicare. So I was incorrect in saying my withholding is 10%. Hey at least I'm still paying into the system and not living on government aid. And if I DID make as much as you, my tax rate would still be lower because I don't live in a nanny state like Massachusetts where they tax you to death. That is why my family left Connecticut in 1995 for Orlando, lower cost of living and lower taxes

Again, you are wrong. Everybody is not f*cked up. People may come across problems in life. A person may lose a job, a loved one may die, whatever. But that doesn't make people f*cked up. There are people that live their lives free of depression, free of ridiculous bull shyte. And it has nothing to do with being a model citizen. I don't even know what that is supposed to mean. You lie to yourself and are the typical "misery loves company" type of man, but in the end that doesn't make your dreams of mass misery truth. And you have no idea what it is to respect anyone. Bigots are not kinds.

You don't get it. Its HOW MUCH you are f*cked up. It could be one little quirk, or it could be somebody is a total whacko. The point is we all have something that makes us look strange more or less to others. Being a model citizen was just a metaphor for your superiority complex

Any person that talks filth about millions of people he will never know is the opposite of kind. What's amazing is that you take issue with the finger being pointed at you, but think it's just fine to talk smack about millions of early 20-something women. That really gets the core of what you're about.

Once again, there are women who do the same with men just because they were hurt once or twice, but that is perfectly ok right?

One thing I have learned on this forum is that there is a commonality among people who blame others for their life position. It's always bad news.
Bold....
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Old 10-20-2012, 01:36 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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Right. I'm the elitist because there should be no reason to charge the likes of Dave from talking smack about millions of women he will never meet or know. My question stands to him, to you, or any other man on this forum. Who are you to talk your sexist, bigoted shyte about women? As JJ mentioned, how in the world can an unsuccessful man, a man living at the poverty level, a man paying so little towards the functioning of this society, pass his judgement on other impoverished people. It's idiotic.

So because I make $9.40 an hour at a grocery store means I am unsuccessful? Quite the contrary. Everything I have I have worked for, you don't know me. You don't know all I have accomplished in my life so far. I have seen and done things people your age haven't even done yet. I moved to Las Vegas back in 2010 because I wanted to BETTER myself and felt there were more opportunities out there. I saved up every dime I made for 6 months to move out there, with ZERO help from my parents. Moved out there not knowing anybody or having any connections and I not only survived out there, I thrived. I made more money than I ever thought possible. You don't know my situation. I was laid off from that job, and then returned home because my father died of cancer.

You know you can come down on me all you want for "trashing" millions of women but you are no better trashing me, you don't know me. You are making your judgements based on what I've said in my posts, which like Salami said are not even serious opinions, I know all women are not how I described, I also know I will find a woman one daywho will ove me for me and not do me like these other ones have.

Those last two women left me in a world of hurt, my father's death had me suicidal after that. When somebody hurts me, I don't forget it. I am a vindictive person, its one of my faults but thats how I am. You know what I have noticed. You have been judgemental and calling me names since this whole argument started. I have not done that to you directly, ONCE NOT ONCE! I have said you have certain attitudes but I have not called you a single name or insulted YOU DIRECTLY once. You have. And you claim to be so intelligent and better than me but you're not. You're not better than me, and I'm no better than you



Yes, there is. You guys think the facts are elitist. You think the facts are aggressive. A person with half a brain can go to census and review the outcome of demographics. It's a fact of life.

I don't give 5 f*cks what the demographics say. I am not going to live in poverty the rest of my life. I will work myself out of it and I'm going to have a great career, make excellent money, and retire young and comfortably with the company I am with

What is wrong with you? I was clearly responding to David with that post, and now you're yammering on about god knows what.
PS I also noticed you were the first one to swear in this whole scuffle we've been having. I didn't swear until you did. What does that say about you now? Usually the first one to swear in an argument is the one fighting a losting battle
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Old 10-20-2012, 01:43 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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Emasculating? Really? Do you think money is power in a personal relationship? If so, are we to presume if you are making more money than the woman you're with that would give you a edge in the relationship? Keep the little woman down? Hmmm. That's revealing. Maybe dating a woman who earns more would be good for your personal growth. Personal relationships aren't about who wields power. They're about mutual respect.
Money is power to an extent in relationships, what happens when people get divorced? The women get half of the man's stuff, money assets, the kids, they take everything but his name usually. Having grown up in poverty, I have always tried to watch my money and for a brief period of time, my ex made more money than me (I was in the process of getting a better paying job) And we often had arguments because she felt that because she was making all the money at that time that her decisions trumped mine and she usually threw it in my face every chance she got that she made more than I did
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Old 10-20-2012, 01:53 PM
 
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Just like a typical woman, there is no winning an argument with one so this will be the last time I apply to your drivel. I will say this though, since generalizing the female gender into what I have experienced in my own life makes me bigoted? Then I guess that makes every woman who's had their heartbroken a bigot too, women like to complain how horrible guys are much more than men do
I disagree. The only time I really see people whine to any degree is on this forum and it's usually men. Men just like you. And why should you win any argument when you're simply wrong? I don't claim to know all people. I don't claim to know everything about millions of men I have never met. But you do make those claims and I'm not sure why. If you want to talk about what's typical, you are typical as well. A typical uneducated, unworldly, lower stationed American male. Do you like that generalization?

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You know you are absolutely right when you say that there are more young women in college then men, but I'll get to that in a moment. That is a real elitist attitude of you to be bragging that your "tax burden" is more than my annual salary. I might not make much but I bust my ass to make what I make. And you may be right about neither gender being ahead in terms of responsibility. A lot of guys in my neighborhood just go "P*ssy money weed, is all a n*gga need" are usually unemployed and have no ambition either. I do, I am in the process of building a great career for myself, WITHOUT A DEGREE!
Oh, so it's ok for you to pass judgment on impoverished young women, but you can't take it when it's thrown back at you. Here's a life lesson for you. You don't get to throw shyte without having shyte thrown back at you.

Although your post here shows me something. When I point out that many women are doing well by being in college, more so than men, you call it elitist rather than recognizing efforts on their part. I have little doubt that's due to your insecurities and it really shows this is all about you and not women en masse. As usual.
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Yes I do know low class people and I have known prostitutes in my life. That does not make me low class. I usually don't associate myself with low class people. My closest friends all have jobs are working towards careers just like me. And where the hell did I say the vast majority shares my beliefs?
Yes it does and stop lying. These are the people you associate with otherwise you wouldn't know who was doing what and how. And where did you say the vast majority? This whole argument is about you saying most 20-something women your age are single mom, porn prostitutes with sugar daddies.
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How do you know my gross will be $15K? I admit I made a mistake, I went back and did the math and about 13% of my total income goes to Fed withholding, Social Security, and Medicare. So I was incorrect in saying my withholding is 10%. Hey at least I'm still paying into the system and not living on government aid. And if I DID make as much as you, my tax rate would still be lower because I don't live in a nanny state like Massachusetts where they tax you to death. That is why my family left Connecticut in 1995 for Orlando, lower cost of living and lower taxes
15k is $300/week minus vacation time. If you're actually paying 13% of 15k, you are screwing yourself. Really. The IRS website has a calculator that you can use to determine your fed income liability.
http://apps.irs.gov/app/withholdingcalculator/index.jsp
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You don't get it. Its HOW MUCH you are f*cked up. It could be one little quirk, or it could be somebody is a total whacko. The point is we all have something that makes us look strange more or less to others. Being a model citizen was just a metaphor for your superiority complex
Being strange is not synonymous with being f*cked up. A f*cked up person suffers at their own hands and/or makes other people suffer.
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Once again, there are women who do the same with men just because they were hurt once or twice, but that is perfectly ok right?
No, it's not ok. It's idiotic for men or women. Both are wrong to do it.

I still don't know why you think anyone on this forum should be hunky dory with that kind of garbage.
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Old 10-20-2012, 01:58 PM
 
Location: NY metro area
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PS I also noticed you were the first one to swear in this whole scuffle we've been having. I didn't swear until you did. What does that say about you now? Usually the first one to swear in an argument is the one fighting a losting battle
Hmmm...you seem quick to blame.

Maybe you'll recognize one day only you are responsible for your actions...your future...your happiness.
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