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Money is power to an extent in relationships, what happens when people get divorced? The women get half of the man's stuff, money assets, the kids, they take everything but his name usually. Having grown up in poverty, I have always tried to watch my money and for a brief period of time, my ex made more money than me (I was in the process of getting a better paying job) And we often had arguments because she felt that because she was making all the money at that time that her decisions trumped mine and she usually threw it in my face every chance she got that she made more than I did
In a marriage, the "stuff" belongs to the couple 100%. It's not his stuff. The ironic thing is, if you were married to a woman who made as much or more than you did and in a divorce assets were divided evenly, you would probably be able to walk away amicably. If you insist on being with someone whose earning potential is much less than yours, then you'll have to make up the difference.
Generally, the lower class and lower income, less education folks are trashy. Look at the way they dress, talk and carry themselves. Their home is probably trashy and not organized, dirty.
In a marriage, the "stuff" belongs to the couple 100%. It's not his stuff. The ironic thing is, if you were married to a woman who made as much or more than you did and in a divorce assets were divided evenly, you would probably be able to walk away amicably. If you insist on being with someone whose earning potential is much less than yours, then you'll have to make up the difference.
I know of two women who are paying their ex husbands alimony.
All they need to do is be with a woman who is either at their level or makes more than them.
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