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Old 10-08-2012, 06:48 PM
 
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Guys, honestly what can an average looking girl do to stand out if she is competing with other girls who are more attractive....??

Men are very visual creatures and they are going to notice the most attractive women first while overlooking the more average looking girls...but there has to be something we can do to pop out more if our looks are not our strongest advantage...

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Old 10-08-2012, 06:50 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Not again

Honey, give it a rest.
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Old 10-08-2012, 06:51 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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Not again

Honey, give it a rest.
Don't participate if you don't like the topic. I want genuine responses.
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Old 10-08-2012, 06:52 PM
 
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Don't participate if you don't like the topic. I want genuine responses.
You have to ask a genuine question to get genuine responses.
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Old 10-08-2012, 06:52 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Nothing, unfortunately

You can hope that one of the guys might like average girls or quirkiness or something else that you may offer off the bat, but other than that the men will likely be drawn towards the beautiful women.
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Old 10-08-2012, 06:53 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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You have to ask a genuine question to get genuine responses.
That is your opinion, however others may feel different and want to answer with a sincere response.
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Old 10-08-2012, 06:53 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Guys, honestly what can an average looking girl do to stand out if she is competing with other girls who are more attractive....??

We know how shallow men are and they are going to notice the most attractive women first while overlooking the more average looking girls...but there has to be something we can do to pop out more if our looks are not our strongest advantage...
Be more aggressive. Don't wait for the guys to talk to you. Use your personality.

It's not rocket science.

The easiest answer is the correct one
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Old 10-08-2012, 06:53 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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Start going to rooms full of less attractive women than yourself. Seriously, that's a pretty dumb question. If a guy doesn't want to notice you, then why do you care. What are you? 12?
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Old 10-08-2012, 06:54 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Guys, honestly what can an average looking girl do to stand out if she is competing with other girls who are more attractive....??

We know how shallow men are and they are going to notice the most attractive women first while overlooking the more average looking girls...but there has to be something we can do to pop out more if our looks are not our strongest advantage...
The good news is, many men do learn to value women for more than just their looks as they grow older. The bad news is, men often don't get to that point until they themselves begin to close in on middle age. You will find the kind of men you are looking for. You are just going to have to make it through the virtual desert of your 20s first.
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Old 10-08-2012, 06:54 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Inferiority complex FTW!
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