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Question for the readers here: do fat people think that nobody wants them therefore with that thought process makes them also think the dating prospects are practically nill?
Well they don't want us in a dating sense. They love our friendship if we have a bunch of other qualities they like, but since we aren't attractive enough, nothing will ever happen in that department. lol
Well they don't want us in a dating sense. They love our friendship if we have a bunch of other qualities they like, but since we aren't attractive enough, nothing will ever happen in that department. lol
Then I say it's their loss if they feel they can get the (BBD) Bigger (and I don't mean body size - lol) and Better Deal.
What happens in a percentage of those who refuse when they're younger is that they grow older then possibly compromise and you know what happens eventually in a good percentage of the time if he/she gets married.
There is one "chatline" that I use as another menas of meeting women and I noticed most of the women on the line described themselves as: BBW, Full-figured or plus-sized.
Even before they say what size they are, like clockwork, I can tell they are fat because the voices of fatter people are often times heavier as a result of the weight on their upper bodies.
Does being fat prevent some of you from having dating prospects?
I was heavy for many years and yes, it definitely did limit my dating prospects. However, I will say this: I never had a woman deny me common courtesy because of my weight. On the other hand, I had plenty of female friends who suffered horrible cruelty from men--most of whom were total strangers--because they were fat.
I never dated anyone who was heavy. I think being overweight is a real problem.
It's not that you are not a good person, but it shows that you are not willing to curb your impulses when it comes to eating and lazy when it comes to getting enough exercise. It takes work and self discipline. Staying thin and fit is very difficult, especially these days.
That being said, since over half of the American population is overweight, you shouldn't have a problem finding dates.
I was asking because I'm thinking of moving to Philly.
Oh ok Ron. Well I can give you some info. Conshahocken isn't part of philly but isn't far from it. And Oreland is very close to Philly yet it is close enough to the local industrial towns.
On topic: Ohhhhh, do I see a dating prospect here with my CD friend "R"?
I never made "fat" a term I associate with lowering the prospects so much in the dating world here in the USA because as a country we have many overweight people. So one would think there's enough for everyone if they find each other that is.
Haha your bad.
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Don't lie.
I wish you the best in finding the correct area.
I'm a single mom Ron doesn't dig that. Lol
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I was j/k around. Therefore no need for me to search anything.
Sorry if you took it the wrong way, I certainly didn't mean it that way.
Haha don't associate Ron with a fat chick. It's cool though it was funny.
Haha don't associate Ron with a fat chick. It's cool though it was funny.
Yeah I was j/k with Ron, but he either didn't understand I was j/k with him about you and him or was offended which wasn't my intent. The way the posts were going it was hard to pass up having fun.
I don't think you're fat, maybe more like full figured though. So what, it doesn't matter to me. The nice person within matters and doesn't figure in my thinking that they're either fat, full figured or whatever.
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if you took it the wrong way, I certainly didn't mean it that way.
