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What do you mean by "never work out"? In fact, are they even supposed to work out? No, they're supposed to be fun, generally temporary fun. Just cause 2 people don't end up in a long-term relationship/marriage, doesn't mean the arrangement was a waste of either person's time.
I can't say I've read the entire thread, but to me this booty call status is defined by a girl whom I can't picture taking home to mom & dad. This could be because she's a bit trashy, has a bitchy attitude, or is a snob. Simple as that, I'm pretty picky about who I'd introduce to them (almost to a fault, almost).
What do you mean by "never work out"? In fact, are they even supposed to work out? No, they're supposed to be fun, generally temporary fun. Just cause 2 people don't end up in a long-term relationship/marriage, doesn't mean the arrangement was a waste of either person's time.
I can't say I've read the entire thread, but to me this booty call status is defined by a girl whom I can't picture taking home to mom & dad. This could be because she's a bit trashy, has a bitchy attitude, or is a snob. Simple as that, I'm pretty picky about who I'd introduce to them (almost to a fault, almost).
Where did I say they had to end up in a LTR or a marriage? I didn't, you did. I think it's been made apparent I think those kinds of situations are a crock.... IF you happen not to agree, that's all well and good. Just know not everyone is going to agree to the validity of FWB, ONS or whatever -- just because you do. Deal with it accordingly.
Well it doesn't matter what kind of answer I give, it's not going to suffice if you view those kinds of arrangements as valid. So if it's valid to you so be it, it's not to me and never will be. The end.
Well it doesn't matter what kind of answer I give, it's not going to suffice if you view those kinds of arrangements as valid. So if it's valid to you so be it, it's not to me. The end.
I just don't know what the **** you mean by 'valid'
They certainly exist.
You may not wish to engage in that type of relationship, but that doesn't invalidate anyone else's.
I can only answer for myself, but a FWB situation would not be ok and I woukd feel like both parties involved were degrading themselves. Sex is simply not enjoyable without a solid emotional connection for me. Im sure it works for other people, but its just not for me.
I just don't know what the **** you mean by 'valid'
They certainly exist.
You may not wish to engage in that type of relationship, but that doesn't invalidate anyone else's.
I know FWB exist, I didn't say they didn't. I also know what people claim they entail. Based on the entire concept of it, it's a bunch of B.S.
I can't invalidate the situation for someone else. I can tell you some other arrangements I view as a crock and invalid too. Whether or not I choose to view those arrangements as a-okay and valid is up to me, what you decide is up to you. See how that works? If by the end of this convo your hope is to convince me that FWB, ONS, or booty calls aren't the same things and are a-okay, you best stop wasting your time now. LOL.
Any woman that allows a man to treat them as a booty call or FWB should not be surprised if she is not respected and is constantly being used. I would think a woman would have low self esteem if she relegated herself to being a booty call. No man is going to look at you as a LTR or wife material.
I know FWB exist, I didn't say they didn't. I also know what people claim they entail. Based on the entire concept of it, it's a bunch of B.S.
I can't invalidate the situation for someone else. I can tell you some other arrangements I view as a crock and invalid too. Whether or not I choose to view those arrangements as a-okay and valid is up to me, what you decide is up to you. See how that works? If by the end of this convo your hope is to convince me that FWB, ONS, or booty calls aren't the same things and are a-okay, you best stop wasting your time now. LOL.
I'm just trying to understand what you mean by 'valid'
Still don't know.
If you mean that it's not appropriate for you then 'valid' is an odd word choice.
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