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So after a second date with some guy, he texted me on Tuesday ask if I would be available on Friday night which I reply that I would let him know.
On Friday morning I texted him that I'm available. He didn't reply untill late in the afternoon saying he's sick and ask if he could make it up on Sunday which I reply" that's fine" and hoped him feel better.
He aslo sent me an email on Friday ask me to be his date to a work event next week. I replied his email telling him I couldn't make it to the event, he replied and sounded like he really wanted me to go.
So today is Sunday and we are supposely to have a date. But I didn't hear anything from him. Should I text him to ask if we are on or should I just forget about it and move on?
Last edited by nameunknown; 10-14-2012 at 01:23 PM..
In my opinion, you waited WAY too long to get back to him about the Friday plans. He gave you 4 days notice, and you kept him hanging until the morning of the date. That is not cool.
If it were me, I would cancel my plans and go with him to the work thing, just to show good faith. That is probably a fairly big-deal event.
Next time don't wait until the day of an event to let someone know you want to go. That's just courteous. You know how you would feel if he did that to you.
In my opinion, you waited WAY too long to get back to him about the Friday plans. He gave you 4 days notice, and you kept him hanging until the morning of the date. That is not cool.
If it were me, I would cancel my plans and go with him to the work thing, just to show good faith. That is probably a fairly big-deal event.
Next time don't wait until the day of an event to let someone know you want to go. That's just courteous. You know how you would feel if he did that to you.
I didnt even realize what I did wasn't so cool.
his work thing starts before I get off work....but then he tried to convince me that we could be there late.
But I also think it's not cool of him to not make specific plans about sunday since i agreed on meeting.
If you indeed like him, Call and see if things are still on. Many people under the weather this time of year. Go for it. Don't pass up what could be a great relationship.
In my opinion, you waited WAY too long to get back to him about the Friday plans. He gave you 4 days notice, and you kept him hanging until the morning of the date. That is not cool.
If it were me, I would cancel my plans and go with him to the work thing, just to show good faith. That is probably a fairly big-deal event.
Next time don't wait until the day of an event to let someone know you want to go. That's just courteous. You know how you would feel if he did that to you.
You don't sound very available to me. You wait until the day of to tell him no. What if he wanted to arrange something else? You can't go to his work thing and now there's some "situation" about Sunday. Now you're wondering why he hasn't gotten back to you. Maybe he is still sick.
You don't sound very available to me. You wait until the day of to tell him no. What if he wanted to arrange something else? You can't go to his work thing and now there's some "situation" about Sunday. Now you're wondering why he hasn't gotten back to you. Maybe he is still sick.
I told him yes I was available.....i mean at least I'm being honest about what i can do and what i can't do. He suggested to meet today, if he's still sick, he could at least let me know that he's still sick and won't able to meet me, I would be totally fine with that. just don't like to be left in the dark.
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I didnt even realize what I did wasn't so cool.
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