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Old 10-16-2012, 08:51 PM
 
Location: Bronx
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Be very careful tellling unattractive women that she looks beautiful or hot or sexy. Terms like this can gas a woman's has head up and keep her head inflated and changes her personality as well as who she.prefers to.date in the future.
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Old 10-16-2012, 08:53 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Be very careful tellling unattractive women that she looks beautiful or hot or sexy. Terms like this can gas a woman's has head up and keep her head inflated and changes her personality as well as who she.prefers to.date in the future.
Yeah, tell them that they're ugly.

That'll teach 'em.
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Old 10-16-2012, 08:55 PM
 
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Be very careful tellling unattractive women that she looks beautiful or hot or sexy. Terms like this can gas a woman's has head up and keep her head inflated and changes her personality as well as who she.prefers to.date in the future.
People are turned on by different things. Im not going to argue whether someone is attractive.
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Old 10-16-2012, 08:56 PM
 
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I don't have a problem saying it. Usually, I've told girls/women they look just like an actress who is universally known to be very attractive, and they say thank you. I once told a girl in college that she was the most attractive girl in our major. There were a handful and it was a "type" thing, but she would have definitely been in that handful. She kind of blushed and mumbled "thank you," but I was already on speaking terms with her.
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Old 10-16-2012, 08:56 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Not you. I am speaking in general.

I am talking a girl who is a model herself. Why does she want to hear that she is good looking?
Tell her she looks nice in the outfit she is wearing.
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Old 10-16-2012, 09:00 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Context matters. Random person on the bus? Major wierdo alert. At a party? Not the best thing to say as an opener, but it's not entirely inappropriate, because the person came into the situation expecting social interaction with the opposite sex.
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Old 10-16-2012, 09:01 PM
 
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If you are confident. It does not matter if they call you ugly.
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Old 10-16-2012, 09:02 PM
 
Location: Bronx
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Yeah, tell them that they're ugly.

That'll teach 'em.
Ugly even worse. I wont see say i think you look beautiful, i know you are deep down inside. You have a whole lot if guys telling every lady that she is beauriful just ro hopefully get some action, then again this is my ne k of the woods. But me personally I can look past shallowness, but I try to watch what I say on the streets due to women rhinking all guys are creep unless he is good looking or driving a really nice car or flashy clothing.
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Old 10-16-2012, 09:03 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Tell her she looks nice in the outfit she is wearing.
If you feel like telling a woman she is beautiful, compliment her on something else entirely.

You have a great smile, excuse me, what is the perfume you are wearing, it smells amazing (this one is really good), jewelry comments are a little trickier to pull off. ...

Noticing a small detail wins you brownie points.
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Old 10-16-2012, 09:04 PM
 
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Tell her she looks nice in the outfit she is wearing.
I could compliment her personality or something very unique.
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