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I can relate, I am a guy with green eyes that are of nice shape.
I've been hearing that my eyes are beautiful all my life. People who tell me that aren't special.
Some girls who are beautiful, don't know that they are beautiful and lack confidence in themselves. Sometimes women need to be complimented to feel good about themselves. Because not all beautiful women get complimented plenty of times. Even if a beautiful women already knew she was beautiful, wouldn't that make her vain and diminish her beauty?
I can relate, I am a guy with green eyes that are of nice shape.
I've been hearing that my eyes are beautiful all my life. People who tell me that aren't special.
Isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder? Just because you may think someone is beautiful, it doesn't mean the rest of the world feels the same way and in turn, she may have never heard it before.
If you are confident. It does not matter if they call you ugly.
I'm confident. It still hurts when someone calls you ugly.
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Originally Posted by TheImportersWife
You're a tough one to win over Jet. A guy is damned if he does and damned if he doesn't.
The last time a guy called me beautiful (and gorgeous, for that matter) I said thank you and started a conversation. When he tried to slide his hand up the inside of my leg and I told him it was inappropriate and to stop, he then called me a name and told me I was fat anyway and left.
It's usually fairly easy to tell if someone is being genuine or not with their compliments. I find most men are not genuine, especially if they're telling me I'm gorgeous while staring at my boobs. If I'm not sure if he's being genuine, I will normally err on the not-genuine side.
Some girls who are beautiful, don't know that they are beautiful and lack confidence in themselves. Sometimes women need to be complimented to feel good about themselves. Because not all beautiful women get complimented plenty of times. Even if a beautiful women already knew she was beautiful, wouldn't that make her vain and diminish her beauty?
Isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder? Just because you may think someone is beautiful, it doesn't mean the rest of the world feels the same way and in turn, she may have never heard it before.
I was talking more along the lines of women that are generally seen as attractive.
Some girls who are beautiful, don't know that they are beautiful and lack confidence in themselves. Sometimes women need to be complimented to feel good about themselves. Because not all beautiful women get complimented plenty of times. Even if a beautiful women already knew she was beautiful, wouldn't that make her vain and diminish her beauty?
Well when getting to know someone, Id like to know them before commenting on appearance. Im sure they like it that way too.
Do men have a problem telling beautiful girls they don't know that they are beautiful? Why do they have a fear of this?
I am not a man. But I don't need to verbally express my appreciation of certain things all the time nor do I think that everyone I encounter is unable to read physical cues and/or have low self esteem. I would like assume they're all nice, normal healthy people unless I see evidence otherwise.
Besides, physical beauty is a joke anyway. A girl might be "beautiful" now to a man now but in 20 years is he going to say the same?
I am not a man. But I don't need to verbally express my appreciation of certain things all the time nor do I think that everyone I encounter is unable to read physical cues and/or have low self esteem. I would like assume they're all nice, normal healthy people unless I see evidence otherwise.
Besides, physical beauty is a joke anyway. A girl might be "beautiful" now to a man now but in 20 years is he going to say the same?
...on how well she kept herself and how close he bonded with her (meaning "What are they talking about? Nope, that pair of jeans doesn't make you look fat, Honey").
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A guy is damned if he does and damned if he doesn't.
