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Nice single men are everywhere. Its the same guys that attractive women constantly ignore and look past. Its the guys who are always single and cannot get laid to save their lives. Those are also the guys, that YOU ARE NOT looking for.
Nice single men are everywhere. Its the same guys that attractive women constantly ignore and look past. Its the guys who are always single and cannot get laid to save their lives. Those are also the guys, that YOU ARE NOT looking for.
Even then, there are also nice, attractive, single, men. Thing is, they don't date multiple women at a time like some of the players do, nor are they on the lookout all the time...
so...
...While they are everywhere, their numbers are low.
I'm not really sure what point you're trying to make. Yes, I talk to guys. Guys I know...my friends. Guys who don't know me don't come up and start talking to me. I don't see how I can make that any clearer, so I won't be trying any further. Believe whatever you want.
I don't know why people are insisting that random guys walk up and talk to women students at school. It's not at all uncommon for women to go through college without being approached. Being in class together isn't the way to meet people, usually. That's done by joining activity groups, clubs, etc. This is the old "we're going to ignore/discount what women are saying, because they're lying, or they don't know their own mind" schtick. It gets old really fast, guys. It's rude. Enough already.
Even then, there are also nice, attractive, single, men. Thing is, they don't date multiple women at a time like some of the players do, nor are they on the lookout all the time...
so...
...While they are everywhere, their numbers are low.
I dont disagree. You must realize the following fact of life in the dating world. A good man who is nice, but gets no attention from the opposite sex has substantialy harder time attracting women than any guy who sleeps around or has multiple options at all times. The reason for that is simple. Most women believe that if a man is unsuccesful in the dating world, it means that there is "something wrong with him". Whether he is nice or not makes very little difference as he is disqualified subconsciously or otherwise, before he is ever given a chance. On the other end of the spectrum, you have guys who sleep with many women and always have females around them. Those guys are considered by most women to be the ultimate prize since "there must be something about him since all women want him". Remember, women love a challenge and a guy with options, while avoid a guy who is unsuccesful in the dating world.
I dont disagree. You must realize the following fact of life in the dating world. A good man who is nice, but gets no attention from the opposite sex has substantialy harder time attracting women than any guy who sleeps around or has multiple options at all times. The reason for that is simple. Most women believe that if a man is unsuccesful in the dating world, it means that there is "something wrong with him". Whether he is nice or not makes very little difference as he is disqualified subconsciously or otherwise, before he is ever given a chance. On the other end of the spectrum, you have guys who sleep with many women and always have females around them. Those guys are considered by most women to be the ultimate prize since "there must be something about him since all women want him". Remember, women love a challenge and a guy with options, while avoid a guy who is unsuccesful in the dating world.
I'm not sure what people mean by options...
Nice guy's aren't those who bother with booty calls or fwb, nor do they sleep around...
A man still has to pursue and charm a woman. Even the attractive ones don't have *every* woman fall into their lap. Either way, the women I dated, I met alone, without other women around me.
...Loyalty is as a quality of honor. You won't find that in a not-so-nice guy.
I dont disagree. You must realize the following fact of life in the dating world. A good man who is nice, but gets no attention from the opposite sex has substantialy harder time attracting women than any guy who sleeps around or has multiple options at all times. The reason for that is simple. Most women believe that if a man is unsuccesful in the dating world, it means that there is "something wrong with him". Whether he is nice or not makes very little difference as he is disqualified subconsciously or otherwise, before he is ever given a chance. On the other end of the spectrum, you have guys who sleep with many women and always have females around them. Those guys are considered by most women to be the ultimate prize since "there must be something about him since all women want him". Remember, women love a challenge and a guy with options, while avoid a guy who is unsuccesful in the dating world.
Flawed logic. Women wouldn't have any idea if a guy is successful or unsuccessful at dating. Hordes of women aren't watching guys through binoculars at night, to see if they go out at night or bring women home, or whatever. Most women aren't interested in players anyway. If they see a guy they like, and he's too shy to approach, some women will sooner or later figure out a way to get his attention.
That's how the nice guys end up married, while the players spend decades spinning their wheels. If the players are happy with that, fine, it's their life, but they don't need to put down people with different preferences than theirs.
Back with the same old broken record, eh, Ascension?
Flawed logic. Women wouldn't have any idea if a guy is successful or unsuccessful at dating. Hordes of women aren't watching guys through binoculars at night, to see if they go out at night or bring women home, or whatever. Most women aren't interested in players anyway. If they see a guy they like, and he's too shy to approach, some women will sooner or later figure out a way to get his attention.
That's how the nice guys end up married, while the players spend decades spinning their wheels. If the players are happy with that, fine, it's their life, but they don't need to put down people with different preferences than theirs.
Back with the same old broken record, eh, Ascension?
Women can tell right away if the guy has options or not. Nice, shy guys who sit around in a corner of the bar, have rarely any success in dating. On the other hand, guys who are surrounbded by women in a bar and act in a way that commands attention from multiple women, all of a sudden become the prize that every single woman in that environment wants.
Ive been in both positions plenty of times, and I can tell you from first hand experience, that there is truly no comparison. WHen I went out with my girlfriends and kept their attention, random attractive women couldnt wait to slip me their number. those types of evenings I ended uo with 4 or 5 phone numbers without having to approach a single woman. Times when I went to a bar by myself, and didnt approach I couldnt as much as get a smile from a single girl.
Life teaches us valuable lessons and its up to us to learn from them. There is a reason that ~80% of single attractive girls sleep with ~10-20% of men, leaving the rest of single guys scratching their heads as they go home to masturbate to porn once again. I know how to be in either group of these guys, and I also know how to act in a commited relationship, which is where i am currently. Dear Ruth, reality of life trumps your wishful thinking.
Women can tell right away if the guy has options or not. Nice, shy guys who sit around in a corner of the bar, have rarely any success in dating. On the other hand, guys who are surrounbded by women in a bar and act in a way that commands attention from multiple women, all of a sudden become the prize that every single woman in that environment wants.
News flash: there are plenty of women who never set foot in a bar. So they wouldn't know who has "options". Some guys don't go to bars, either. It takes money to go to bars regularly, and a lot of students are just scraping by, working their way through school. The bar scene doesn't appeal to everyone.
News flash: there are plenty of women who never set foot in a bar. So they wouldn't know who has "options". Some guys don't go to bars, either. It takes money to go to bars regularly, and a lot of students are just scraping by, working their way through school. The bar scene doesn't appeal to everyone.
Ugh...Ruth, you are being obtuse once again, for the sake of arguing with me. A bar was used simply as an example. Its not as if my main point is that bars are excellent places to meet a woman. Not even close.
Wow Texas and California looks like a sausage feast.
Hahaha.
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