Why is cheating bad? (marry, guys, family, different)
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How about this case?
I'm paying for my classes (I'm currently studying tourism and hotel management, which at the same time involves international business and how to manage bills) and at the same time saving money to buy myself a house. I want to live on my own at some point in the near future while looking for Mr Right will come as a secondary complement.
So will he still have the rights to cheat on me in this case; even if it were my house and it's not just him bringing the money?
I don't need a rich man to maintain me. I don't want that either. I'm happy when it's me making something with my own effort, not taking credit for someone else's work.
Why assume that we want to be stay-at-home gf/wife? I hope you're a troll (srs).
Moreover, why does he think that one should have to settle for that when there are plenty of men who are HAPPY to bring home the bacon AND be faithful?
But I suspect he already knows this. Of course, I could be giving him too much credit. I can't understand how some people operate. If he truly believes what he is saying, he's got issues. If he's just a troll looking to ruffle feathers, he's got issues. He shouldn't leave the house.
It's men who keep a roof over your head, bring home the bread every night and pay the bills, so that man has the right to see multiple women at the same time.
Maybe in the Kentucky trailer park in which you dwell. In the actual world, most women work and many earn far more than their male counterparts.
And I will guarantee you this poster is a bitter, lonely, fat female who couldn't attract a man if she waddled into her local Walmart naked, wearing a sign that read, "Sex for free."
Moreover, why does he think that one should have to settle for that when there are plenty of men who are HAPPY to bring home the bacon AND be faithful?
But I suspect he already knows this. Of course, I could be giving him too much credit. I can't understand how some people operate. If he truly believes what he is saying, he's got issues. If he's just a troll looking to ruffle feathers, he's got issues. He shouldn't leave the house.
Why should any man bring home the bacon for any woman (other than his mom if she needs some bills paid)?? The less individuals on the payroll, the better.
Why should any man bring home the bacon for any woman (other than his mom if she needs some bills paid)?? The less individuals on the payroll, the better.
Don't put anyone on your payroll, if you don't want to. Free country and all. Fortunately.
I swear sometimes I feel like I need a shot of penicillin after some of these posts.
I can't understand why men are criticized for having something on the side. It's men who keep a roof over your head, bring home the bread every night and pay the bills, so that man has the right to see multiple women at the same time. Men need variety. We get bored of the same thing day in day out.
If it's the man who brings everything to the table, you really don't have any choice but to accept it because you live off his income and he supports you. You have to either like it or lump it.
Western society seems to have programmed people to believe that cheating is somehow wrong. It's not. It's natural for a man to have more than one sexual partner. Being with one woman for the rest of your life is against nature.
The funny thing is, the men I know who are most adamant about their right to be non-monogamous are the most insanely jealous when they find out their female partners also have someone on the side. A lot of men who preach non-monogamy for themselves expect strict monogamy from the women in their lives.
The funny thing is, the men I know who are most adamant about their right to be non-monogamous are the most insanely jealous when they find out their female partners also have someone on the side. A lot of men who preach non-monogamy for themselves expect strict monogamy from the women in their lives.
I've noticed this too... I think it's similar to when one person accuses their partner of cheating because they feel guilty about cheating themselves.
They want the best of both worlds, a loving girlfriend/wife at home taking care of their lives and then being a 'single guy' getting strange on the side. At least, that's how my ex explained it. I wasn't hot enough to really 'get him going' but I was a great girlfriend, paying most of the bills, keeping the house spotless, grocery shopping and making him food every night etc. and he didn't want to lose that. So, he decided to sleep with hotter women on the side and honestly didn't see anything wrong with it.
The funny thing is, the men I know who are most adamant about their right to be non-monogamous are the most insanely jealous when they find out their female partners also have someone on the side. A lot of men who preach non-monogamy for themselves expect strict monogamy from the women in their lives.
Yup, the hypocrisy between them. Somehow they believe they're still entitle for that ''woman of high morals and values'' when yet they're a screwed-up individual.
The way it should be: a messed up man deserves a messed up woman. A loyal, good man deserves that woman of high morals and values.
I can't understand why men are criticized for having something on the side. It's men who keep a roof over your head, bring home the bread every night and pay the bills, so that man has the right to see multiple women at the same time. Men need variety. We get bored of the same thing day in day out.
If it's the man who brings everything to the table, you really don't have any choice but to accept it because you live off his income and he supports you. You have to either like it or lump it.
Western society seems to have programmed people to believe that cheating is somehow wrong. It's not. It's natural for a man to have more than one sexual partner. Being with one woman for the rest of your life is against nature.
And you call yourself Mr. Perfect? Kind of shows you how screwed up we all are, don't you think?
Yup, the hypocrisy between them. Somehow they believe they're still entitle for that ''woman of high morals and values'' when yet they're a screwed-up individual.
The way it should be: a messed up man deserves a messed up woman. A loyal, good man deserves that woman of high morals and values.
No man needs any woman for anything except for sex.
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Why is cheating bad?
