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Well, I guess it's confusing really. The way she even found out I was interested, is I went out for a friends 20th birthday, went home drunk and told her on the phone.
The next day, she said that everyone get's a crush sometimes, and she'll still talk to me like a friend. If that's not friendzoned I don't know what is lol.
'Actions speak louder than words'. We both study music at university, except I'm doing the level 5 while she does level 4. We had an audition yesterday together, along with everyone else doing Performing Arts and Music, I went to wait outside the room before all of the other people, their nerves were annoying me. She was there with 2 of her friends, and other then a small moment of eye contact, she didn't speak to me.
I said hello as we walked in to the audition, but she just said 'Sound', then nothing else. She also asked to sit with me the previous day in a text because she was nervous, but then decided to sit in between her friends, so I just moved to other people.
She confuses me. She doesn't even make that good a friend, why am I bothering ? :/ I guess I care too much some times.
If you feel you care to much then you got to make a decision is really worth her being in your life if it causes that much confusion. I understand some of my best friends are the care too much type but friendship is a two way street if you feel its one way then break it off.
If you feel you care to much then you got to make a decision is really worth her being in your life if it causes that much confusion. I understand some of my best friends are the care too much type but friendship is a two way street if you feel its one way then break it off.
it's not only that, I have little to no patience. So let's say I make a move, and she is manipulative. My lack of patience is not going to benefit either of us, she's already been on the bad end of the stick once for pissing me around with meeting - mind you I've kept my cool since then.
it's not only that, I have little to no patience. So let's say I make a move, and she is manipulative. My lack of patience is not going to benefit either of us, she's already been on the bad end of the stick once for pissing me around with meeting - mind you I've kept my cool since then.
You just answered your own question right there so read what you wrote, comprehend it and move forward without this girl. Also, your lack of patience has nothing to do with her choice to be fussy and manipulative.
it's not only that, I have little to no patience. So let's say I make a move, and she is manipulative. My lack of patience is not going to benefit either of us, she's already been on the bad end of the stick once for pissing me around with meeting - mind you I've kept my cool since then.
I think you just gave yourself the answer. You say you have zero patience for playing around and not going to fit either of you. I can't tell you how to go about it but act on it clear the dust.
You just answered your own question right there so read what you wrote, comprehend it and move forward without this girl. Also, your lack of patience has nothing to do with her choice to be fussy and manipulative.
Oh, this was after I got friendzoned ;p
My lack of patience = I'm likely to get annoyed if she is manipulative, I previously posted I'm a reserve in the forces, so I already do not take being messed around as it is. :/
Ahhh, need to stop making excuses for myself >< You're probably right, it'll be better to stay as friends, but at the same time the worst she can say is no, so I may just make a move anyway, because we could be speculating wrong and she could be perfect, and we'll spend our lives together. At the same time, it could be horrible and not work.
As Bear Grylls says; risk nothing: gain nothing.
Oh, this was after I got friendzoned ;p My lack of patience = I'm likely to get annoyed if she is manipulative, I previously posted I'm a reserve in the forces, so I already do not take being messed around as it is. :/
Ahhh, need to stop making excuses for myself >< You're probably right, it'll be better to stay as friends, but at the same time the worst she can say is no, so I may just make a move anyway, because we could be speculating wrong and she could be perfect, and we'll spend our lives together. At the same time, it could be horrible and not work.
As Bear Grylls says; risk nothing: gain nothing.
You sound kind of scary and aggressive. Maybe you should work on your anger management issues before you try to get in to a relationship.
You sound kind of scary and aggressive. Maybe you should work on your anger management issues before you try to get in to a relationship.
Then you lack experience with people who are soldiers. That's quite a harsh thing to say, no matter how truthful.
I wouldn't do anything to hurt anyone, but I don't like getting pissed around, and don't have the patience for it. If I'm not like that, I'm chill.
If you ever meet any man who's a member of the navy that does not expect a certain degree of respect from his piers, then he's likely to be a deserter and doesn't deserve respect himself. All of us feel the same way about a lot of things, especially related to being messed around. I hate being late for ANYTHING, because it's how I've been trained.
Go for 10 weeks training to be a marine, when you leave you won't be the same person :/
Then you lack experience with people who are soldiers. That's quite a harsh thing to say, no matter how truthful.
I wouldn't do anything to hurt anyone, but I don't like getting pissed around, and don't have the patience for it. If I'm not like that, I'm chill.
If you ever meet any man who's a member of the navy that does not expect a certain degree of respect from his piers, then he's likely to be a deserter and doesn't deserve respect himself. All of us feel the same way about a lot of things, especially related to being messed around. I hate being late for ANYTHING, because it's how I've been trained.
Go for 10 weeks training to be a marine, when you leave you won't be the same person :/
You were in the military, that doesn't make you special.
You applied for a job and you got it. You got paid for it.
It's not an excuses for bad behavior.
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My lack of patience is not going to benefit either of us, she's already been on the bad end of the stick once for pissing me around with meeting - mind you I've kept my cool since then.
Don't like hearing about how you present yourself, then don't present yourself that way.
You act your way into new thinking, not think your way into new acting.
You are one big red flag.
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