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Men with options usually don't date obese women (unless they have a BBW fetish). Just because you see such couples doesn't mean it's men's preference. It's just a matter of numbers. A large % of people today are overweight or obese. That's what's out there. So for many, especially men with few options, it's a choice of a big woman or no woman.
I really believe that both men and women who are overweight, end up being with somebody, that if given a different situation would be with, would not be with. That doesn't mean the marriage or relationship is bad or its going to end up in divorce, but they end up settling for one reason or another.
I've always preferred thin and athletic women. I tried to expand my horizons and date a fat woman and it just didn't work, I wasn't attracted.
No need to demonize those who aren't into fat women. Different strokes, different folks and I have plenty of friends who PREFER a bigger woman (even one who we used to tease for watching fat porn ha!).
I agree. There's no reason to act like every guy has to be attracted to fat girls.
My problem is with the guys who treat fat women like they're the scum of the earth just because they're not attracted to them, not with guys who don't date them because they're not attracted to them.
Say what you want, but I do workouts that normal people are not capable of doing. Why would I want to come home to someone who's overweight or obese or anywhere close to the two ?
And no, it's not my job as a boyfriend to motivate her to get in shape. I'm her boyfriend, not her personal trainer.
Agreed with the above sentiments, they're not attractive in the slightest to me, but they are still people with feelings. If an overweight woman hit on me, I'd politely turn her down.
Really fellas? A lot of dudes out there scream to the high heavens of how fat chicks are repulsive or they'll never date or touch a fat woman or how fat women are at the bottom of the totem pole when it comes dating. But lo and behold if you actually look outside your house you'll see that there are several overweight women who have BF's/husbands and are in relationships.
In all honesty. Is it time for this idea that 'fat women are the bottom of the totem pole need to die'?
Because seriously at this point the men who say this need to just speak for themselves.
How the way things are these days and how the way women are some guys would and will be lucky to have a chick by her side whether if she is fat or not. Me personally I dont mind dating fat woman, quite frankly some of the best sex I had is with fat women causing me to finish quickly compared to slim chicks which the performance might be an whole day affair, if not a slim or skinny chick has to use her moist palms to finish me off or she may have to extend her wings way out if she can. I'm actually courting a fat woman right now and I want to see how it goes. But you are right alot of fat chubby women are in happy relationships or even married or popping out kids left and right, while one chubby chick can have mulitiple boyfriends. As for fat woman at the bottom of the totem pole to die, it already has,woman in general have been sizing up men and putting men at ranks of society, to his wieght and hieght at the bottom of the barrel. Lately I have noticed chubby women being picky and some are even jaded by having guys brainwash their heads by saying your hot, or sexy, your beautiful, now a fat chick will fully believe she is the hottest piece of meat on the sex/dating market.
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