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When I enter metro north every Friday am, all eyes are on my pants
At least the prospective father-in-law, a supposedly old school baby boomer male, thinks I'm a snazzy dresser. You see the extent men need to go to in NYC to stand out of the crowd
My boyfriend is fat. He admits it, knows it, lives up to it. I've never dated anyone anyone who's fat/overweight/obese (pick whichever term you'd like, lol) and so it has been an adjustment for me. But, he's making active strides to lose the weight. It's frustrating b/c although he's motivated, at times i see him reverting back to eating the same garbage that landed him in the high BMI category in the first place. I encourage him and am patient with him...but I know it's difficult. He knows very full well that I won't marry him if he continues to be obese. This is a deal breaker, and he knows it. A few pounds is acceptable, but obesity is not.
Dating someone who's overweight or obese is definitely not for the faint of heart, especially if you yourself are where you need to be weight-wise, and that person knows/acknowledges his/her weight issues, and is unhappy with his/her looks.
If it takes several years to put that weight on, it will definitely take some very dedicated time/discipline to get it off, or at least down and going in the right direction.
I knew an old, bearded lumberjack (think Santa Claus length) that was significantly overweight with unkempt hair and skin related conditions that made his color not uniform. Yet he had no trouble with ladies and several women in relationships cheated on their boyfriends to be with him.
I found out that the secret to his success was that his penis was almost the length of a paper towel roll (not toilet paper roll, paper towel roll) and that he would stay hard even after ejaculating.
Since he was by society's standards, ugly and not successful, he aroused little suspicion.
I knew an old, bearded lumberjack (think Santa Claus length) that was significantly overweight with unkempt hair and skin related conditions that made his color not uniform. Yet he had no trouble with ladies and several women in relationships cheated on their boyfriends to be with him.
I found out that the secret to his success was that his penis was almost the length of a paper towel roll (not toilet paper roll, paper towel roll) and that he would stay hard even after ejaculating.
Since he was by society's standards, ugly and not successful, he aroused little suspicion.
Now that is funny............have you ever had sex with a larger man?
Trust me they can and do have a lot more stamina than smaller/thinner men I've known.
Don't get me wrong, I don't like skinny, scrawny, or a muscle head. But someone easily winded with a huge gut above their junk, doesn't float my boat. (I did kick-it with a chubby guy and I was disappointed. I vowed to select a healthier partner next time!) I did date a really nice guy who was 50-60 pounds overweight, with an attractive face. But all he talked about was all the TV shows he watched and bragged about how he never went out. I find nothing attractive or compatible about that.
My boyfriend is fat. He admits it, knows it, lives up to it. I've never dated anyone anyone who's fat/overweight/obese (pick whichever term you'd like, lol) and so it has been an adjustment for me. But, he's making active strides to lose the weight. It's frustrating b/c although he's motivated, at times i see him reverting back to eating the same garbage that landed him in the high BMI category in the first place. I encourage him and am patient with him...but I know it's difficult. He knows very full well that I won't marry him if he continues to be obese. This is a deal breaker, and he knows it. A few pounds is acceptable, but obesity is not.
Dating someone who's overweight or obese is definitely not for the faint of heart, especially if you yourself are where you need to be weight-wise, and that person knows/acknowledges his/her weight issues, and is unhappy with his/her looks.
If it takes several years to put that weight on, it will definitely take some very dedicated time/discipline to get it off, or at least down and going in the right direction.
You should break up with this man and let him find a woman who accepts him as he currently is without changing just to suit your perfect requirements for a husband.
You should show him this post and see what his response is and if he appreciates your "patience and concern" for his health......which appears non existant because you are more interested in his physical appearance not the man he truly is.
You should break up with this man and let him find a woman who accepts him as he currently is without changing just to suit your perfect requirements for a husband.
You should show him this post and see what his response is and if he appreciates your "patience and concern" for his health......which appears non existant because you are more interested in his physical appearance not the man he truly is.
Lol! Thank you for that very thorough assessment of my post. My boyfriend is looking at this right now, as I type. He and I are in agreement and everything I've ever posted, he has seen. We have nothing to hide form one another. And btw, if you know anything concerning my relationship with him (which I've posted about extensively in previous threads), then you'll understand why I view your opinion and post as completely asinine.
But thank you, nevertheless, for wasting forum space, with your thoughts above .
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