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Old 10-24-2012, 01:04 PM
 
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It means she isnt interested. Who cares, find another. There are. Only 4 billion other women out there.
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Old 10-24-2012, 01:07 PM
 
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Not particularly a solution. A player eventually gets played. They find a person who plays harder, Or they get emotionally attached-Or they just get plain older and it wears thin. In regard to my previous 2 statements to being a smooth "playa" i liken it to boxing. Even the greatest fighters eventually get bested despite thinking otherwise.
So what if he gets played? You can't win them all. You move on to the next girl.
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Old 10-24-2012, 01:49 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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So what if he gets played? You can't win them all. You move on to the next girl.
They probably do, But that sense of losing for the individual can make them re-examine things. I guess my point is for those who like this is that their feeling of being able to "get anyone" gets thrown for a loop. Imagine you are a fighter with 25 wins and no losses, And you are on top of the world. Then your 26th fight you get floored. You may have other fights but it's a blow to your confidence esp if you underestimated your opponent.
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Old 10-24-2012, 01:56 PM
 
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men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way.
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Old 10-24-2012, 02:47 PM
 
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They probably do, But that sense of losing for the individual can make them re-examine things. I guess my point is for those who like this is that their feeling of being able to "get anyone" gets thrown for a loop. Imagine you are a fighter with 25 wins and no losses, And you are on top of the world. Then your 26th fight you get floored. You may have other fights but it's a blow to your confidence esp if you underestimated your opponent.
Lol. There isn't a player on the planet that has a perfect record.

Mike Tyson had a perfect record but he lost that one fight, so what? 26-1 is not bad.

I could be 0-1000 with rejections but the 1001 may be the one.
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Old 10-24-2012, 03:09 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Lol. There isn't a player on the planet that has a perfect record.

Mike Tyson had a perfect record but he lost that one fight, so what? 26-1 is not bad.


I could be 0-1000 with rejections but the 1001 may be the one.
Tyson also went bananas and began biting opponents after that. he's a perfect example of my previous posts. This does not apply to all people of course.
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Old 10-24-2012, 03:54 PM
 
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Tyson also went bananas and began biting opponents after that. he's a perfect example of my previous posts. This does not apply to all people of course.
You aren't a good player if you quit playing.
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Old 10-24-2012, 04:08 PM
 
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I agree with those that say once she says let's just be friends she will never become your girlfriend.

What I found is that when I kept seeing girls after they gave me the LJBF talk I would actually fall deeper for them. They would become unobtainable goddesses. They have all the power at that point and may try to take advantage of it. For example using you to buy things for them.
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Old 10-24-2012, 04:44 PM
 
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I agree with those that say once she says let's just be friends she will never become your girlfriend.

What I found is that when I kept seeing girls after they gave me the LJBF talk I would actually fall deeper for them. They would become unobtainable goddesses. They have all the power at that point and may try to take advantage of it. For example using you to buy things for them.
Yes, I can vouch for the fall deeper part.

What you should've done is spent less time with them and more time looking for women like them.
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Old 10-25-2012, 06:09 AM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Recently, the girl i've been chasing told me that she just want to be friends with me. We're still friendly with each other now. But the more i talk to her, i just couldnt get over her the fact that i can never be with her. I dont want to stop talking to her and letting her know that i am disappointed because of that.. What can i do?
You've been friend zoned, there's nothing you can do. Move on.
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