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Old 10-20-2012, 05:11 PM
 
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Recently, the girl i've been chasing told me that she just want to be friends with me. We're still friendly with each other now. But the more i talk to her, i just couldnt get over her the fact that i can never be with her. I dont want to stop talking to her and letting her know that i am disappointed because of that.. What can i do?
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Old 10-20-2012, 05:24 PM
 
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Oh lord.
I've been there, get over it, start looking for someone else since you could be looking for a long time.

You'll find someone similar thats single, maybe one day. That's just the fact of the dating game.
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Old 10-20-2012, 05:54 PM
 
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Recently, the girl i've been chasing told me that she just want to be friends with me. We're still friendly with each other now. But the more i talk to her, i just couldnt get over her the fact that i can never be with her. I dont want to stop talking to her and letting her know that i am disappointed because of that.. What can i do?
It's not easy on either end.

You know what you're capable of and you know you can't force her to love you. Either keep yourself in check or leave.her alone.
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Old 10-20-2012, 05:56 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Recently, the girl i've been chasing told me that she just want to be friends with me. We're still friendly with each other now. But the more i talk to her, i just couldnt get over her the fact that i can never be with her. I dont want to stop talking to her and letting her know that i am disappointed because of that.. What can i do?
Falling for women who aren't interested in you is going to happen now and then throughout your life. You need to learn to take "no" for an answer.
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Old 10-20-2012, 08:32 PM
 
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I heard from her friends that she liked someone else...its time for me to move on..
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Old 10-20-2012, 08:36 PM
 
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Friend zone is NEVER good for a man. Do yourself a favor and Keep it moving.
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Old 10-20-2012, 09:11 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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Recently, the girl i've been chasing told me that she just want to be friends with me. We're still friendly with each other now. But the more i talk to her, i just couldnt get over her the fact that i can never be with her. I dont want to stop talking to her and letting her know that i am disappointed because of that.. What can i do?
Dude that is the ultimate shut down. The moment the words "I just wanna be friends" come out of her mouth, that's when you need to give up, forget about it, and move on. You can't sit there and dwell on it. She doesn't want you. Move on and find someone else who wants to be more than friends and is actually someone you're into just as much!

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Old 10-20-2012, 10:57 PM
 
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you have to decide if you CAN get over it, and if you cannot it may be time to move away from this girl and distance yourself.

there is no point investing your time and effort if you are not just there for "friendship"
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Old 10-20-2012, 11:16 PM
 
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Recently, the girl i've been chasing told me that she just want to be friends with me. We're still friendly with each other now. But the more i talk to her, i just couldnt get over her the fact that i can never be with her. I dont want to stop talking to her and letting her know that i am disappointed because of that.. What can i do?
Lol. Another classic broken record thread on this topic.

Move on and learn from your mistakes.
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Old 10-21-2012, 04:20 AM
 
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Default Move on

Move on, your wasting your time with her. She wont ever be your girl, shes put you into the dreaded permanent friend mode. Leave her alone.
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