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Old 10-21-2012, 12:16 PM
 
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No, this isn't a share your past. It's a thread on how many of you would be ok with dating someone less experienced with you in relationships and sex and stuff. What is the cut-off age for you when it comes to giving dates to people you normally wouldn't? And don't say everything is base off chemistry. I don't want that response cause chemistry is temporary blindness. I want genuine answers.
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Old 10-21-2012, 05:12 PM
 
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No, this isn't a share your past. It's a thread on how many of you would be ok with dating someone less experienced with you in relationships and sex and stuff. What is the cut-off age for you when it comes to giving dates to people you normally wouldn't? And don't say everything is base off chemistry. I don't want that response cause chemistry is temporary blindness. I want genuine answers.
This question makes no sense. If I normally wouldn't date you, I won't date you. I don't make exceptions.

That said, I don't date men under 35 or over 50, virgins, or men who have never had a long-term (several years) relationship, and I prefer men who have already lived with a woman (either married or not). Basically, I prefer men who know what they're doing in bed and know what it's like to build a relationship and life with a woman. Just not going to be anyone's teacher, least of all someone who, if he's a virgin or never had a girlfriend by 35, I would basically consider abnormal. At my age, I expect a certain amount of experience.
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Old 10-22-2012, 08:06 AM
 
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This question makes no sense. If I normally wouldn't date you, I won't date you. I don't make exceptions.

That said, I don't date men under 35 or over 50, virgins, or men who have never had a long-term (several years) relationship, and I prefer men who have already lived with a woman (either married or not). Basically, I prefer men who know what they're doing in bed and know what it's like to build a relationship and life with a woman. Just not going to be anyone's teacher, least of all someone who, if he's a virgin or never had a girlfriend by 35, I would basically consider abnormal. At my age, I expect a certain amount of experience.
Ok. So then my question would be. If you find a person you really match and really gets you. But the think is both are on different levels of experiences. Would you give it a shot?
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Old 10-22-2012, 08:08 AM
 
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Come on man, you only live once. You're only 24 years old and 214 days old ONCE. Of course you give it a shot, why wouldn't you?
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Old 10-22-2012, 08:09 AM
 
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Come on man, you only live once. You're only 24 years old and 214 days old ONCE. Of course you give it a shot, why wouldn't you?
Cause you feel insecure?
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Old 10-22-2012, 08:14 AM
 
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Cause you feel insecure?
I understand, but there's only one way to fight that insecurity.

My girlfriend asked me the other day, "It's hard for me to have long conversations with your cousins. How do you think I can talk to them on a more personal level?"

My response was "you'll be able to have long conversations with them once you have a long conversation with them". It's stupid and simple at the same time. Don't think about the fear, think about what you have to do.

It's baseball postseason now, pitcher gets a save and gets asked "that was an intense situation against the Yankees best players, how did you do it?" His response is "I didn't think about who was up there, I was just saw the sign and threw the ball to the glove."
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Old 10-22-2012, 08:14 AM
 
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I would be ok with that.
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Old 10-22-2012, 08:34 AM
 
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Besides, how do you know their "level of experience" when you're just meeting them??

You can't judge everything by age.
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Old 10-22-2012, 08:40 AM
 
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Age is a chronological man made number and has absolutely nothing to do with the level of experience in regards to real life, real love, real relationships and real sex. The best way to find out is to stick around for a bit and see how things work out and don't make a judgement just because of a number.
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