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Old 11-22-2011, 04:24 AM
 
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I occasionally use a dating site here in Switzerland, and recently I have had some very suspicious chat and email interactions with men who do not seem to be who they say they are. It wastes my time and pisses me off.

Now, in this country, poor command of English isn't always an indicator of a Nigerian scammer, but here are some things that raise red flags for me:
  • Only 1 profile picture
  • Claiming to be American or English but making odd language errors
  • Being self-employed (usually in petrochemical industry)
  • Using affectionate language right away ("babe," "sweetie")
  • No facebook page
But I wish I had a foolproof way of weeding out the love scammers right away because now I come across as being really suspicious to even legitimate contacts--demanding pictures, asking for fb info, etc.

I would love to be able to ask one or two innocent-sounding questions that would reveal whether someone is for real or not without putting a potential date off.

Ideas?
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Old 11-22-2011, 04:26 AM
 
Location: Harrisonburg, VA
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You can check out this website Welcome to 419Eater . It is dedicated to catching these guys and there is a lot of good info on there regarding this problem.
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Old 11-22-2011, 01:59 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I guess I would google the petrochemical industry to find some in depth questions to ask him about it. I would think that would give him away.
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Old 11-22-2011, 09:30 PM
 
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Send him a NSF check for $1,000,000 and see his reaction!
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Old 11-22-2011, 10:55 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Tell him you don't date south of the Sahara and see what he says.
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Old 01-20-2012, 03:17 PM
 
Location: albuquerque
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hi yes i omost got scammed from this girl from laygos she said her name was alicia balogunhttp://l.jpg
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Old 01-20-2012, 03:38 PM
 
Location: In The Thin Air
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hi yes i omost got scammed from this girl from laygos she said her name was alicia balogun
I totallllly udnersantd thsi.
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Old 01-21-2012, 01:16 AM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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Send him a NSF check for $1,000,000 and see his reaction!
That sounds fun to do, until you realize that the bogus check still has your Account and Bank Routing number on it.
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Old 01-21-2012, 06:32 AM
 
Location: NY
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Does the dating site have a report feature, to report suspicious characters?
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Old 01-21-2012, 06:34 AM
 
Location: USA
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Ask him for money first?



J/k
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