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Old 10-23-2012, 10:24 AM
 
Location: North Hollywood
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Originally Posted by MIKEETC View Post
Five hours in a bar kissing...!?!

[get a room...]
Try reading the post - I said one hour!

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It has only been 4 or 5 days since you met her. She may be busy or involved with her job. I don't recommend leaving any more messages, but give her a little more time before you give up hope.
I'll probably say hi in a day or two, but I'm not holding my breath...she's not working right now, she starts her job in November
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Old 10-23-2012, 12:23 PM
 
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I met a lady for a drink last Thursday, we had a good time and ended up making out for an hour or so. I got the signals from her so I made the move...We were together for about 5 in hours in total. We were in a secluded little nook in a bar, so nobody could really see what we were up to.

I text her Saturday, saying it was nice meeting you, let's hang out again, let me know when you're free - no response. In the text I made a joke about my jaw hurting cos of kissing (it really did hurt on Friday). She was a bit of a forceful kisser BTW

Called her Sunday, let a message saying the same thing - no response so far.

Ladies, any idea why she's disappeared? Was it my joke about the kissing?

I suspect she's got other guys lined up...

She may be a bïtch that doesn't have the common courtesy to let you know that she's not interested.
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Old 10-23-2012, 12:51 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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Perhaps she was in a car accident, or had to go to the hospital for some other reason.
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Old 10-23-2012, 12:59 PM
 
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I met a lady for a drink last Thursday, we had a good time and ended up making out for an hour or so. I got the signals from her so I made the move...We were together for about 5 in hours in total. We were in a secluded little nook in a bar, so nobody could really see what we were up to.

I text her Saturday, saying it was nice meeting you, let's hang out again, let me know when you're free - no response. In the text I made a joke about my jaw hurting cos of kissing (it really did hurt on Friday). She was a bit of a forceful kisser BTW

Called her Sunday, let a message saying the same thing - no response so far.

Ladies, any idea why she's disappeared? Was it my joke about the kissing?

I suspect she's got other guys lined up...
If she's a catch, like you say, she's got a few guys pursuing her. I think she liked you, but likes others more and she was making the most of her time out with you.

Just in general, I like the approach of texting the next day to just say you had a nice time and thank them for going out with you. Then give them a few days or week at least to ask for a next date, so they have some space and it leaves some suspense.
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Old 10-23-2012, 01:11 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Try reading the post - I said one hour!

...
Get a room, anyway.

[your response to a joke is indicative of how sensitive you are]
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Old 10-23-2012, 01:23 PM
 
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Agree 100%.

She's probably putting the LTR guy through the 90-day no sex plan and hooking-up/sleeping-around all over town.

Men are dogs, but so are women. Never put p*ssy on a pedastol, because they aren't putting our d*cks up there. OP, you seem like a very genuine guy and who's to say that she could have played you. As of right now, that may always be up to interpretation. Don't always get caught up in what a woman says, get caught up in what a woman does. It will save you so much headache and heartache in the end!
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Old 10-23-2012, 01:26 PM
 
Location: San Francisco, CA
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if she is that great she probably has many many options...so you are not her top pick
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Old 10-23-2012, 03:59 PM
 
Location: Way up high
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Jealous here..Nothing like a good drunk make out....FML
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Old 10-23-2012, 04:00 PM
 
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She more than likely is embarrassed. She regretted her actions.
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Old 10-23-2012, 04:01 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Jealous here..Nothing like a good drunk make out....FML
Actually, when one is drunk, the quality of any romantic/sexual interaction is pretty low. Nobody really has any precision, everything is sloppy and rushed.


Apparently ecstasy though, makes sex a hell of a lot better.....or so I've heard.
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