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Old 10-22-2012, 07:02 PM
 
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I'd say take her advice...

A girl called me creepy once, told me to "lose her number"...

I more or less told her to go .... herself (I believe the direct quote is ".... you"), and that I would gladly never talk to her again, knowing that she was the way she was...

She apologized, and asked if we could still be friends...

I told her sure...

But "I've lost her number"....deleted it from my phone..

People these days, I don't know what else to say...

Just self obsessed monkeys, if I had to say something else...
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Old 10-22-2012, 07:38 PM
 
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Extremely busy men either have to marry a woman to keep her around or be super hot or famous.
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Old 10-22-2012, 08:47 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Read my post. People do "weird" things when trying to channel their frustrations. I'm not saying that's the case but I'll bet it's something close to it.
I read your post Ron, but here's the thing--if they had been dating for awhile I could understand how other frustrations could surface and come out wrong. But here we're talking about someone he just met last week. If she's flying her crazy flag this early on, it's just the beginning of things to come. Trust me, I've dated my share of crazies and she has "bunny boiler" written all over her.
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Old 10-22-2012, 09:07 PM
 
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Bunny Boiler?

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Old 10-22-2012, 09:13 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Bunny Boiler?

Let me google that for you
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Old 10-22-2012, 10:02 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Maybe I'm missing something.
Nope. You dodged a bullet.

[be grateful]
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Old 10-22-2012, 10:14 PM
 
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I think she was out of line. Yes, you could have told her you aren't available for personal calls/text during work-day hours when you gave her your number, but she sounds like an overreacting drama queen, and I think you dodged a bullet.

That being said, I do hope when you eventually get married you do put your wife/family before your job. Otherwise, I suspect you may not have a very happily married life! lol

Yep. She sounds like a needy psycho. Definitely dodged a bullet.

And I agree about family, too.
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Old 10-23-2012, 06:17 AM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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Bunny Boiler?



Every man in America was frightened by that movie. If you haven't watched it then you NEED to watch it and BE frightened.
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Old 10-23-2012, 07:13 AM
 
Location: Canada
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I read your post Ron, but here's the thing--if they had been dating for awhile I could understand how other frustrations could surface and come out wrong. But here we're talking about someone he just met last week. If she's flying her crazy flag this early on, it's just the beginning of things to come. Trust me, I've dated my share of crazies and she has "bunny boiler" written all over her.
If she was a true bunny boiler, she wouldn't have stopped, wouldn't have been the one to tell him to lose her number. I think she was frustrated by lack of response from him, and didn't know why, because he couldn't be bothered to tell her. Not every woman is a psycho in the making.
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Old 10-23-2012, 08:59 AM
 
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This is a tough cookie. If they met online, I can understand the frustration. It seems less communication is offered to people online, than if you were set up by a friend or you crossed paths at the grocery store.

I say, no harm no foul.
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