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Many opportunities have been missed by me because I get turned off by women who aren't looking for anything serious. I am the type of guy that takes relationships seriously and I could never see myself not giving a relationship all I could give or being with someone that doesn't give all they could give.
I look at people in a bar or club that end up in ONSes and think, how could they?
I am an overly serious man by nature, and sometimes I wonder what it would be like to be a bit less serious and loosen up or something. Should I give casual relationships a chance? Or would I be disappointed in them?
If you haven't tried it, you don't know if you'll like it.
I'm much more casual by nature. I enjoy a relationship in which I don't feel like I'm tied down. I actually get spooked when I find someone I think I want to commit to because I don't know how to handle it.
I find that many men do enjoy casual relationships, but most women don't. These are just my personal observations though, based on guys I've dated and conversations with my female friends. Not to speak for all the women in the world, because naturally we're all different, but often women who get into casual relationships and ONSs end up getting hurt because even though her head and her crotch were saying "let's just have fun," the heart has the final word, and it usually says "why isn't he calling?" And on some level she may have been thinking that she'd win him over and move on to a serious relationship, while the man was just thinking "cool, ONS". It's taken me 10 years of dating to realize and admit that I want a serious relationship.
Well I'm a woman and I enjoyed casual relationships in my 20's. It was party time after I married too young and got divorced. For me it was a stage I needed to go through and get out of my system before I met the love of my life. No regrets here. It was a good growth period and a lot of fun.
I personally don't see the point of being in a "casual relationship" with someone if it's never going to be serious or if you're never going to get married. It seems pointless and a waste of time.
I personally don't see the point of being in a "casual relationship" with someone if it's never going to be serious or if you're never going to get married. It seems pointless and a waste of time.
It could always evolve.
That's the point.
There are a number of women here looking for a casual relationship, and I am sure some of them are decent people.
I would not know, but it seems so. Whatever rocks their socks off, so to speak. Personally I doubt I could be happy in a relationship like that, but maybe I should try it sometime.
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