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Yes, most of the time we know right away. But not always, like anything there can be exceptions. I had an exception with someone I met through a friend. I got to know his great personality first without any expectations of trying to date him. If I had met him online and gone out on a date my answer would have been no, but knowing him in a different context my answer changed over time. But I'd say 95% of the time I have known right away.
the eyes never lie i guess. the only thing is
eyes can't talk, so the man has to say something
to find out if she's open or not. then if even she
says no, i don't know what to tell you.
No - I've only slept with a handful of guys - and there were maybe 2 in the whole bunch that I knew I wanted to sleep with right away. But I have a hard time voting in a poll that lists "bank account" as one of the reasons that someone would grow on me. I assure you - a person's bank account was never a factor. Personality had everything to do with it.
Yes, most of the time we know right away. But not always, like anything there can be exceptions. I had an exception with someone I met through a friend. I got to know his great personality first without any expectations of trying to date him. If I had met him online and gone out on a date my answer would have been no, but knowing him in a different context my answer changed over time. But I'd say 95% of the time I have known right away.
I already know your answer. You're the one who inspired the poll.
I'm interested in a headcount. So, less commentary and more yes/no.
No - I've only slept with a handful of guys - and there were maybe 2 in the whole bunch that I knew I wanted to sleep with right away. But I have a hard time voting in a poll that lists "bank account" as one of the reasons that someone would grow on me. I assure you - a person's bank account was never a factor. Personality had everything to do with it.
That part was a joke.
But technically, if money is what you are after, you are not shallow, at least not in a superficial vein.
I know within 5 minutes whether I find him physically attractive, but my thoughts don't go straight to sex.
^^^This. The first 5 minutes would be enough to establish an interest in him and then from there, determine if there could be anything more between us.
But technically, if money is what you are after, you are not shallow, at least not in a superficial vein.
If you wanted us to take the poll seriously - you probably should have left that out. It just makes it look like the reason a man would grow on a woman is because she found out he was rich.
Like I said - there were only two guys that I slept with that I felt an instant attraction towards. And I wasn't even really thinking "sex" - I just knew that I found them attractive. But it wasn't based solely on looks. Sometimes you can tell a lot about someone just based on their clothes, their mannerisms, where you meet them, etc. If you had put these guys in different clothes, in different situations, etc. - I probably wouldn't have been attracted to them right away.
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