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Guys, can you tell me what type of woman you hope to meet when you decide to talk to her?
What do you want her to talk about?
Do you care if she has a job, car, home, etc?
Does it matter what she's wearing?
What kinds of body language do you pick up on?
What signals do you hope to read from her?
What makes you decide if you want to pursue her as a potential GF?
What things about her would intimidate you?
Do you like it when you have to chase her?
How do you decide if she's playing hard to get or really interested?
Maybe some answers to these questions would give me insight if I'm the problem? I will try to ask some guys at work I know if they have any answers as well.
thanks!!!
Guys, can you tell me what type of woman you hope to meet when you decide to talk to her? -One that interests me mentally and physically
What do you want her to talk about?
-Anything, its more about how the flow of the conversation goes.
Do you care if she has a job, car, home, etc?
-I would like her to have A job and her own car, her own place is not essential.
Does it matter what she's wearing?
-I am not super picky with this, but if she has a style that intrigues me that is even better, but she should not dress like she doesn't care about her appearance either.
What kinds of body language do you pick up on?
-Personally, I take notice that she is looking me in the eyes, laughing, having a good time , asking me questions, a good back and forth.
What signals do you hope to read from her?
-As long as it appears to me that she is genuinely enjoying our conversation, and my company that is a good sign.
What makes you decide if you want to pursue her as a potential GF?
-If she is a girl that i really enjoy talking to and I have the urge to want to get to know her 1 on 1 (ask on a date) is a good starting point for me.
What things about her would intimidate you?
-Nothing, cant be intimidated, we are all people at the end of the day.
Do you like it when you have to chase her?
-In the Beginning that is fine, but after a while it should no longer be a chase it should be more equal.
How do you decide if she's playing hard to get or really interested?
-That is a tough one, really it comes down gauging how she interacts with you.
Maybe some answers to these questions would give me insight if I'm the problem? I will try to ask some guys at work I know if they have any answers as well.
All too hard. Stay home. Read books. Listen to music. Keep life simple.
Really, who's got time for all this? I suppose if I wanted the 'prize' I would make the effort, but why complicate things for the sake of a situation I wouldn't be able to relax enough to let myself enjoy if it happened?
Many times I feel like a visitor to this planet instead of a resident. This is one of them. You humans and your courtship rituals baffle me almost as much as your willingness to turn your lives inside out for them.
Good question. Why do you have time to respond to 5-year-old threads?
Ok, a branch of my other thread: Guys, can you tell me what type of woman you hope to meet when you decide to talk to her? For me, my recent "interest" was a colleague of mine who all of a sudden became very attractive one night at a mutual friend's birthday party. Always felt she was cute but the way she danced and was having fun that night, I really digged it. I had to leave early so I couldn't make a move. Been dropping hints lately, she's been very shy around me but receptive. See what happens
What do you want her to talk about? How they grew up. For some reason, that always strikes a cord with me.
Do you care if she has a job, car, home, etc? Job, I like career women.
Does it matter what she's wearing? Not at all. I really don't judge that
What kinds of body language do you pick up on? Eye contact is one. I remember sometime last year, a girl I took out on a date (wasn't much attraction post getting to know each other more) gave me very strong eye contact with a smile for a few nights that we hung out. Touching, some people say shows they like you but I can never tell if it's playful or flirty.
What signals do you hope to read from her? I'm horrible at this but eye contact is always the biggest one I can read up on
What makes you decide if you want to pursue her as a potential GF? Once I get to know her and maybe see how friends think of her.
What things about her would intimidate you? More past experience. Maybe condescending or a little too upfront about what she thinks in public.
Do you like it when you have to chase her? I like the mix. I have done the chasing and have been chased one from what I remember. It usually is more enjoyable if the woman gets flirty too and it's not just me.[/b]
How do you decide if she's playing hard to get or really interested? One on one conversations when you're alone.
Maybe some answers to these questions would give me insight if I'm the problem? I will try to ask some guys at work I know if they have any answers as well.
thanks!!!
My answers^^
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