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Old 10-25-2012, 10:02 AM
 
Location: My House
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Originally Posted by lpfan921 View Post
Yea i got no problem satisfying my woman... once i find one. In the rare times when i have been with a girl, i've always made sure she got whatever she wanted

Maybe some of these guys are just expecting the woman to please them, but they aren't taking the time to please her? I don't know but it sounds like that is what you are suggesting.
If you are rarely with a woman? How did you manage to hone your woman pleasing skills?

It takes practice.
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Old 10-25-2012, 10:02 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Of course i have a problem with women. 17 years of rejection from women will do that to you.
You're not old enough to have been rejected for 17 years. Pre-puberty doesn't count. It's good for cranking up the whine factor, though.
 
Old 10-25-2012, 10:04 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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TV and movies often present married men as beggers in their relationship, unable to get enough from their wives. When I've been in relationships there has been almost too much sex.

Women not involved are like nuns, but in relationships they are animals.
THIS is a guy who knows what he's talking about!
 
Old 10-25-2012, 10:05 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Of course i have a problem with women. 17 years of rejection from women will do that to you.
But based on your other threads, your definition of "rejection" is pretty broad. A woman you think is cute but who mentions a boyfriend isn't being mean to you or rejecting you. A woman you've never spoken to who doesn't even know you're interested isn't rejecting you. Not everyone you want is going to want you back. They may not be available, or they might not be attracted to you. This isn't rejection.
 
Old 10-25-2012, 10:07 AM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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But based on your other threads, your definition of "rejection" is pretty broad. A woman you think is cute but who mentions a boyfriend isn't being mean to you or rejecting you. A woman you've never spoken to who doesn't even know you're interested isn't rejecting you. Not everyone you want is going to want you back. They may not be available, or they might not be attracted to you. This isn't rejection.
Isn't that pretty much the very definition of rejection?
 
Old 10-25-2012, 10:08 AM
 
Location: USA
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nope, but hookers are lowlife. you'll
still be lonely afterwards, so it won't
make you feel any better.
 
Old 10-25-2012, 10:10 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Isn't that pretty much the very definition of rejection?
You have a choice. You can read rejection into every minor situation, and end up depressing yourself or making yourself bitter or angry, or you can view it as fleetie suggested, and go through life in a good mood. Your choice. Just don't burden us constantly with the consequences of your poor choices, please. Two threads on the same topic in one morning? Indicates you have a problem, and the problem is you.

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Old 10-25-2012, 10:11 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Isn't that pretty much the very definition of rejection?
That's just life. You don't always get what you want.
 
Old 10-25-2012, 10:37 AM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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That's just life. You don't always get what you want.
That's for sure!! I definitely don't get what i want. One thing i finally agree with you on.
 
Old 10-25-2012, 10:40 AM
 
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If you mean that "are you going to have sex every time you're horny?" then no, probably. In a relationship you are dealing with another person, so compromise and timing are important. If a guy starts to get frisky the morning of his girlfriend's big presentation at work when she's been stressed out for days and needs to be there early, then he's probably going to get postponed. Meet her at the door with a glass of wine that evening when she gets home and all systems will be go.
That’s right. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean a man will get to have sex whenever he wants. Sometimes she might be ok with it and other times she will have to be romanced, taken out, surprise her with a gift, etc. some effort and creativity is always welcomed from men if they want to have sex. For the girlfriend, she’s more likely to have sex whenever she wants in a snap.

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