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Old 10-26-2012, 08:19 PM
 
Location: Memphis
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Originally Posted by Kenneth-Kaunda View Post
of course it is - why wouldn't you date a bi-guy?

is it because you are a bigot, or perhaps just a hypocrite - take your pick

SSM is wrong, and a girl dating a bi guy is wrong - you can't have it both ways.

But you think you can have one but not the other - explain.
What the hell does SSM mean? And just because a woman does not ant to date a bisexual man does not mean she's a bigot.There really is no reason for a bisexual man to get butthurt over a straight woman not wanting to date him,when he can go be with a man, or a tranny.Plus I hear trannies were the best of both worlds anyways.
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Old 10-26-2012, 08:21 PM
 
Location: DFW
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I wouldn't date a bisexual guy to begin with. I have had bisexual guy friends but they would never be boyfriends.
What if the man of your dreams marries you, 2 kids and ten years later says "Baby I'm Bi-Sexual".

What then ? You divorce him and leave with your 2 kids ?
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Old 10-26-2012, 08:32 PM
 
Location: NYC
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What if the man of your dreams marries you, 2 kids and ten years later says "Baby I'm Bi-Sexual".

What then ? You divorce him and leave with your 2 kids ?
The only reason he would say that is a desire to have sex with other people, or as an admission of having had sex with other people within the last 10 years. Those are legit deal breakers. What else could it be, he is sexually attracted to men and women? Since when do married couple share every sexual fantasy and attraction with each other?
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Old 10-26-2012, 08:36 PM
 
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I'm a bisexual woman and I've actually had more sexual experiences with women than with men. However I settled down with a man, and I'm staying true to my vows, even though technically my "so" is okay with me having relations with women(based on certain conditions).

I have never been in a situation where I was dating or seriously interested in a bisexual man. But I don't blame a woman if she would not want to date one.
Isn't this the way ALL these threads run on this topic? Bisexual women are chic. NOT.

I've got a story. It's pretty funny, once you supply the accent.

I was in grad school, sitting there studying. I was in close proximity to a black guy, with whom I was an acquaintance and would speak with when I ran into him. A reasonably effeminate white guy in the grad program, who was a graduate teaching assistant, walks through the area.

Me (to black guy): "How did THAT guy get a good-looking girl to take to the (name of social function)?"
Black guy (to me): "Oh, that teacha' dude, oh, he bisessual."

There was this one girl, also in our program and within earshot of this conversation, who rolled her eyes. Needless to say, she and I replayed that grammatically correct *cough* response a time or two.
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Old 10-27-2012, 06:32 AM
 
Location: Memphis
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What if the man of your dreams marries you, 2 kids and ten years later says "Baby I'm Bi-Sexual".

What then ? You divorce him and leave with your 2 kids ?
People do it all the time.Tina Simpson is divorcing Joe Simpson for being gay, and having a male lover.
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Old 10-27-2012, 06:45 AM
 
Location: Pueblo - Colorado's Second City
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People do it all the time.Tina Simpson is divorcing Joe Simpson for being gay, and having a male lover.
That is actually cheating and it happens to both gay and straight couples. That is not the same thing as knowing your spouse is bisexual but faithful.
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Old 10-27-2012, 06:56 AM
 
Location: Memphis
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That is actually cheating and it happens to both gay and straight couples. That is not the same thing as knowing your spouse is bisexual but faithful.
It really doesn't make a difference.If a woman finds out that her husband is indeed bisexual,then she have every right to divorce him,because she probably knows it will lead to the situation like Joe Simpson.It's called dodging the bullet,sweetie.
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Old 10-27-2012, 07:38 AM
 
Location: Pueblo - Colorado's Second City
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It really doesn't make a difference.If a woman finds out that her husband is indeed bisexual,then she have every right to divorce him,because she probably knows it will lead to the situation like Joe Simpson.It's called dodging the bullet,sweetie.
Only if this hypethical persom is homophobic. Other then that there would be no reason to divorce him as he is the same person he was before he told her he was bi.
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Old 10-27-2012, 07:39 AM
 
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It really doesn't make a difference.If a woman finds out that her husband is indeed bisexual,then she have every right to divorce him,because she probably knows it will lead to the situation like Joe Simpson.It's called dodging the bullet,sweetie.
Really? REALLY? It will probably lead to him sleeping with a guy? My, aren't you the omniscient one! It's a stereotype that serves to hurt and denigrate bisexual men. Just because a man is attracted to both men and women does not mean he can't or won't be happy with a monogamous relationship of either gender.

Period.

You can throw all your insecurities and anecdotal stories you want, but that's all it is. If you don't want to date a bisexual guy, that's your business, but please don't spread fallacies.
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Old 10-27-2012, 10:12 AM
 
Location: Memphis
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Really? REALLY? It will probably lead to him sleeping with a guy? My, aren't you the omniscient one! It's a stereotype that serves to hurt and denigrate bisexual men. Just because a man is attracted to both men and women does not mean he can't or won't be happy with a monogamous relationship of either gender.

Period.

You can throw all your insecurities and anecdotal stories you want, but that's all it is. If you don't want to date a bisexual guy, that's your business, but please don't spread fallacies.

See that's the thing.Bisexual men will be more likelyy to fully commit to a relationship with another man, and the chances of that bi man cheating are slim to none.But with a woman, that a different story because, she does not have a penis,or is a man.I have read many stories from women stating they caught their men viewing gay porn, or looking hookups with men,or trannies.How in the world can a woman compete with a dick?It seems like man, or a tranny is the perfect match for these so called bisexual men.
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