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Old 10-28-2012, 10:20 AM
 
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Exactly. This isn't rocket science.
Why would I keep pursuing her if she's not single?
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Old 10-28-2012, 10:22 AM
 
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I meant what to say.

Something like "Ohh ok no problem, have a nice day?"
Start talking about the weather then call it a day.
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Old 10-28-2012, 10:23 AM
 
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Start talking about the weather then call it a day.
Yep, that sounds reasonable.
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Old 10-28-2012, 11:22 AM
 
Location: Gotham
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Why would I keep pursuing her if she's not single?
You wouldn't. Or atleast you shouldn't. If she's not single you just move on. If she is then you can decide whether to pursue the possibility of going out with her. Or not. Your choice.
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Old 10-28-2012, 01:34 PM
 
Location: Detroit
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So what to say if she's not single?

Say something like "Ohh ok no problem have a nice day"?

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No. Just act like it doesn't phase you at all. You don't want to have a bad reaction. If anything just change the subject or go along with it like "so how long have you and him been together?" ect.
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Old 11-13-2012, 07:16 PM
 
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Just found out the guy she lives with is her husband

Move on...
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Old 11-13-2012, 09:00 PM
 
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So what to say if she's not single?

Say something like "Ohh ok no problem have a nice day"?

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You say: "He is such a lucky guy to have you" with a genuine smile. If she ever breaks up with him, you're on her list.
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Old 11-13-2012, 09:01 PM
 
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Just found out the guy she lives with is her husband

Move on...
LOL.... I am sorry, man.

Didn't you see her ring, or did she not wear one?

How did you find out he is her husband?
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Old 11-13-2012, 10:28 PM
 
Location: Australia
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OP asked not only what he should say to her, but also how he should react afterwards.

I don't think a guy with that level of initiative is going to be thinking of checking for wedding rings.
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Old 11-13-2012, 10:40 PM
 
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this reminds me of the guy next door to us trying to pick up my wife over the coarse of a few weeks when we first moved to this location.

he ended up disappearing off the face of the earth after she told him she was married. she took no offense to him asking her out eventually..it happens, that's life. no big deal.

the guy though...holy hell, he avoids us like we want to kill him now. ive seen him tuck tail and run inside when i come home. he either thinks i want to kill him for asking my wife out (which i don't at all lol) is life shatteringly embarrassed my wife turned him down/he asked out a married women, or both.
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