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Op, You are talking about sex with someone else ? I've never seen anyone wait for a little solo sex.
I've been around the block many times but CD is the 1st place I heard of all the women having sex with BOB. I thought BOB must be a lucky guy till I figured out BOB was their friendly alternative who never talked back or went to sleep right after.
In the immortal words of a friendly woman poster......"Bring Own Batteries"......
Women waiting for men? Never ever had a guy make me wait once I said I was ready...
Only happened to me once in my life, though he was a virgin holding out for marriage sorta like that Tim TBo guy. He's still someone I hold near in dear in my heart even if we never made it to the wedding altar. One of the best human beings I knew and loved.
As said by others, there is no certain amount of time or number of dates. It depends on many thing, and it will be different with each man. As far as your thread title "how long are you willing to wait for sex", I think most women can outlast mean anytime.
It would have to be before any serious commitments were made.
Totally agree. While sex is most definitely not everything, it certainly is a big aspect to any relationship. If it isn't good, the relationship will begin to suffer from it sooner or later. Best to find out just how compatible you are before serious commitments are made.
When I'm ready isn't dependent upon number of meetings. It depends upon the depth of our experiences together, comfort levels, strong prospects that we could be more than just girlfriend and boyfriend and other substantive factors. If you're looking for someone who wants to give you a number, make a Disney animated feature around "getting laid in X numbers of meets," or hire a hooker and get it on the first meet with no strings attached - why wait?
This. Women don't "wait" for sex. They wait for the right conditions to present themselves in the form of a guy they have something in common with, feel safe with (meaning, he's not going to turn into someone with major baggage or criminal/violent tendencies), and bond with. They're not dating to have sex, they're dating to find someone who would make a good partner. So it's not about "waiting for sex".
Otherwise, rushing into sex could end up like the woman with the Iranian (posing as Austrian) stalker who posted here recently. Who needs that?
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