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I'd ask what he's wary of. Some reasons for wariness are easier for me to deal with than others. It just depends.
You make good sense, there are many reasons why it would or might not be a situation worth investing time and energy in. For one it's an oddity for the male to be the one not wanting to move to that level of intimacy, so, yes, there would need to be some clarifications and no teeth pulling. If he can't have a simple discussion about it, then he's not the one for me.
Earlier in this thread I said in my case, it happened to me once, were a man I was dating refused me. We were young, he about 19, I was 21, he was strongly routed in his belief that his first would be with his bride. Me being the Jezebel I was, (what my sister angrily termed me,) he in time was convinced enough that we would be together forever and we might have been had not circumstances intervened. But I would have waited for as long as he needed me two. Wasn't like we didn't fool around other ways. No, there wasn't any oral _ e x going on before the main event.
It would really depend on the circumstances involved.
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A requirement that has come up in recent years from the insurance pool is that we see a shrink annually the purpose being to make sure the person is (mentally) fit to take the vessel. The whole thing seems like a waste of time to me so I usually try and pump her for information about people I know to see if I can gain some insight into what they're thinking. It never works because she answers every question with another of her own or alternatively with a non commital response that says neither yes or no. Much like you. lol
A requirement that has come up in recent years from the insurance pool is that we see a shrink annually the purpose being to make sure the person is (mentally) fit to take the vessel. The whole thing seems like a waste of time to me so I usually try and pump her for information about people I know to see if I can gain some insight into what they're thinking. It never works because she answers every question with another of her own or alternatively with a non commital response that says neither yes or no. Much like you. lol
Insurance pool? Shrink? Take the vessel? Huh?
What does any of that have to do with being ready for sex? I'm afraid you lost me.
Depends on the guy and how much chemistry we have together. If he's a total dud, I'll just take the oral and say "see ya later". But if the guy has a bit more substance, I'll stick around and see how well things develop.
Depends on the guy and how much chemistry we have together. If he's a total dud, I'll just take the oral and say "see ya later". But if the guy has a bit more substance, I'll stick around and see how well things develop.
Depends on the guy and how much chemistry we have together. If he's a total dud, I'll just take the oral and say "see ya later". But if the guy has a bit more substance, I'll stick around and see how well things develop.
If only those guys knew where that lollypop had been.....
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