I need some marriage HELP! (guys, separation, affairs, friend)

[VRE332]

Originally Posted by the_dimwit

Or...he could sleep with the MIL. That might help settle all of the tension in the house.



--Dim

please backspace that out of my memory

[the_dimwit]

Originally Posted by VRE332

please backspace that out of my memory

lol...I'm just tryin' to help!

--Dim

[VRE332]

Originally Posted by bicoastal10

OP, you made the mistake of getting married in the first place and there's really nothing more I can say about it.

You messed up.

The marriage part yes, the kids part no.

[srjth]

Wait, let me guess....

You want to stay together for the kids.

Did I win?

[YAZ]

If your wife was serious about divorce, then she would've presented you with papers already.

Sounds like the women folk in your life really enjoy controlling you.

Unless your MIL is convalescing, she needs to GTFO.

Grow some 'nads and get yourself an apartment.

3-6 months of that will show you and yours the best way to go.

[Suncc49]

What kind of quality of life is this man? Ask yourself. IF she really wanted to divorce you, she would file papers. Perhaps you need to leave for awhile.

ALSO QUIT SLEEPING IN THE BED W YOUR DAUGHTER... That is straight creepy

[fleetiebelle]

This is one of those posters who make me extremely curious as to what his wife's version of the situation would be.

[2mares]

Originally Posted by VRE332

I need to write her an email and tell her to please stay out of my affairs, and that she needs to stay away from us. Also thanking her for her help, but now it's becoming a burden on our marriage.

NO. Have a conversation with your wife, then both of you have a conversation with her mother. Face to face, no email. Good grief! I dont like to encourage anyone to give up easily on a marriage, but if you two cant talk to one another it might be a good idea for a trial seperation and a counselor.

[srjth]

Originally Posted by YAZ

If your wife was serious about divorce, then she would've presented you with papers already.

Sounds like the women folk in your life really enjoy controlling you.

Unless your MIL is convalescing, she needs to GTFO.

Grow some 'nads and get yourself an apartment.

3-6 months of that will show you and yours the best way to go.

This is true!

[mermaid825]

Your wife sounds like a very nasty person to have kicked you out of the bedroom and demand a divorce weekly. I say call her bluff and let her have the divorce. And definitely stop sleeping in your daughter's bed, that's just weird, sorry. It could come back to haunt you re: custody if you guys do end up divorcing.