Should I tell the guy I'm dating that his friend touched my butt? (how to, women)
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The guy I'm dating ( lets call him A) took me with him to hang out with his buddies last night. We were drinking and maybe it's the alcohol kicking in that one of his friends (lets call him B) touched my butt. I was standing behind the kitchen counter and when B passed by he touched my bootie. A was on the opposite side of the counter and didnt notice anything. I didn't say anything cause I didn't want to ruin the night or create any drama.
Another thing, A told B that I started to take kickboxing classes. A and B used to kickbox. B was showing me some moves like how to punch and kick. I was throwing a punch when he grabbed my hand and wrapped his arms around me and slowly put me down on the floor. B intentionally did it. We're suppose to just practice throwing punches and kicks. I pushed him and I got up.
A noticed it cause he told me this morning that it felt weird seeing Bs arms around me. He asked me if I'm attracted to B. I told him that I'm totally not attracted to him. A admitted that he was jealous of B cause he was too friendly to me and we seemed to get along well. But should I tell A? He said B is one of his best buddies. They hang out almost every weekend.
Last edited by Missganda; 11-03-2012 at 09:16 PM..
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The guy I'm dating ( lets call him A) took me with him to hang out with his buddies last night. We were drinking and maybe it's the alcohol kicking in that one of his friends (lets call him B) touched my butt. I was standing behind the kitchen counter and when B passed by he touched my bootie. A was on the opposite side of the counter and didnt notice anything. I didn't say anything cause I didn't want to ruin the night or create any drama.
A this morning admitted that he was jealous of B cause he was too friendly to me and me and B get along well. But should I tell A? He said B is one of his best buddies. They hang out almost every weekend.
I would. If it happened once, it'll happen again. B isn't as much of a buddy as A thinks. I'd be ticked off that some guy thinks he can go around feeling up women, especially his buddy's woman.
Is this is the "I've been dating him for 5 months guy and he doesn't have time to contact me" guy?
Go ahead and tell him that his friend touched your "bootie", you won't have to worry with the lack of contact any longer because he will choose his bestest bud that he already hangs out with every weekend and he will dump you in a blink.
On the brighter side, your lack of contact issue will be solved.
I would tell, he already said he was jealous and if you dont say anything A is going to think that your ok with his friends touching on you in that manner. The more time you take to tell the worse the outcome will be.
Yeah, guy A already suspects it sounds like, so tell him.
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