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View Poll Results: How do couples match up evenly?
Women's physical attractiveness equal to man's physical attractiveness? 27 40.30%
Women's physical attractiveness on par with man's financial status? 40 59.70%
Voters: 67. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 04-04-2016, 04:04 PM
 
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I never consider moneybags,just looks and whether there is an innate spiritual spark between us and then common interests.
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Old 04-04-2016, 06:35 PM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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Looks (I need to be attracted to my partner)
Intellect/worldview
Personality/character

I'd say #1 for me and my husband. I think this is more common than not.
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Old 04-04-2016, 06:44 PM
 
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But I bet it was your humility and strong quiet confidence that really sealed the deal.
I was reading this thinking he's probably a solid 6 in all aspects. Sort of remind me of the old guys at the guy who think they're running the places.

My match is based on mostly based on the guy who DTF when I am. Usually younger, because guys my age suck as FWB.
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Old 04-04-2016, 06:51 PM
 
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Im glad I saw this because I was just thinking about this today after I was told I will likely date someone out of my league and I definitely dont want to do so.

For me, out of my league is only slightly associated with looks and more so success and social status. If I am dating someone who looks wise is about even with me but she is far more successful than I am and perhaps more of an alpha female and I am more of a beta male (i'm not but just for an example) I would consider her far more out of my league than a woman who is a solid 10 on attractiveness, but not nearly as accomplished or successful or has the social status.

For example, Taylor Swift is out of my league (by a lot), but a women who looks just like Taylor Swift living in my same city and has a normal life probably isnt.
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Old 08-09-2016, 05:05 PM
 
Location: Massachusetts
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It's more money/money, education level/education level around the Boston area.
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