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Old 11-09-2012, 01:49 PM
 
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It seems like my sexual urges never stop. No matter who I am in a relationship with I always want to have sex with other women. I have never cheated on anyone and don't plan too. Does anyone else have this problem? How do you deal with it?
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Old 11-09-2012, 01:52 PM
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It seems like my sexual urges never stop. No matter who I am in a relationship with I always want to have sex with other women. I have never cheated on anyone and don't plan too. Does anyone else have this problem? How do you deal with it?
You need to masturbate more.

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Old 11-09-2012, 02:26 PM
 
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It seems like my sexual urges never stop. No matter who I am in a relationship with I always want to have sex with other women. I have never cheated on anyone and don't plan too. Does anyone else have this problem? How do you deal with it?
I think it is just human nature.
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Old 11-09-2012, 02:32 PM
 
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Beat it
And when I'm with my GF, I'm not worried about other women.
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Old 11-09-2012, 02:34 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Well you're going to end up cheating b/c you can't keep it in your pants. too bad for her.
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Old 11-09-2012, 02:56 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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The intensity of that desire varies by person. The greater the desire, the greater need for strategies to manage it, and/or for impulse control. Even if you are in a relationship that's open, there are - usually - limits, rules, and boundaries. I think if your desires are especially strong, you may want to try to find someone who's open to an open relationship. Otherwise, you need good strategies for self-control if your partner expects monogamy, and you want to nurture that relationship rather than potentially destroy it.
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Old 11-09-2012, 03:14 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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I have a VERY high sex drive but I never had the urge to have sex with a women when I'm in a realtionship I just found someone who had the same drive I have. Problem solved.
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Old 11-09-2012, 05:29 PM
 
Location: Columbia, California
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It seems like my sexual urges never stop. No matter who I am in a relationship with I always want to have sex with other women. I have never cheated on anyone and don't plan too. Does anyone else have this problem? How do you deal with it?
You graduate from high school and go to work.
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Old 11-09-2012, 05:35 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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You graduate from high school and go to work.
lol.

But seriously, sexual urges are chemical and absolutely normal and healthy. The question is what you do in response to them. You can notice other women and be sexually attracted to them but remain completely faithful to your partner.
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Old 11-09-2012, 05:38 PM
 
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You employ your Jedi powers.
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