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We have been dating for 3 months. I am a lesbian grew up in Europe but living in the U.S for quite while. She is an American and we are both in our 40s. I know it will sound childish what I am going to write because of our age but I will need your input to make sure that I am not over reacting... I am not sure if she is playing games but for sure I am not used to this when I was dating in Europe. So I just want to make sure if it's me I will "adjust". She plays little games which will add up....she is not cheating, she seems very loyal....but she is always waiting for me to say or do something first and then she will do it...she hasn't been with anybody for 14 years and she is very close to her family to the point that she has to check up on them even when we are together (sister, nephew etc)....like few times a day when we are together....she lives with her sister and she doesn't work right now but she communicates and being with her family 24/7 while I am not around...then she plays those little games, like first she didn't want to take pictures when my friends and we went to sight seeing. Then she sends me text when she sees me on facebook...she asked me to be her girlfriend yet she has all these pictures of her fantasy girls who she likes but 2 pic of us together on facebook..her room was like a teenager room full of the fantasy girls she likes (porn girl), now she took it off because I said something, now she has more pic of me because I said something.....it is very hard for me to put all this together in words, it's not only the pics it's like I have to initiate everything....she is more words than actions, her words don't back up her actions....yes she is loyal, she is a home body she sends me cards but I want more action without me saying something...As soon as I challenge her she is kissing my butt, but this is not what I want, I want this to be natural....Am I over reacting and should be more adjusted to the American way, or she is really playing games...Ask me more questions because I didn't include everything, it's really hard to explain unless you guys will ask questions. Thank you for your reply.
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