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most people are looking to make lives of there own (not saying you do not have a life of your own) they are looking for people in similar situations who have a means to accomplish the life they seek.
its a little hard to do that when you have no means to accomplish it. its equally as hard when you have a disability "clouding" what people think or want from life.
if you want my honest advise, seek others with the same or similar disabilities as you as they are the best people to understand where you are coming from and getting past that initial barrier of being accepted. im sure if you looked you could find a support group and start meeting some great people
If I don't have a job and still live with my parents because of a disability I'm having, should I just accept the fact that without a job I will never have a girlfriend?
I don't have a trust fund and I don't even know what that is.
Not particularly good-looking no and charming? I don't know.
I'm 27 years old and still living in my parents' house because I cannot afford to live on my own. I suffer from multiple scelerosis, cancer, chronic pain, nausea, vomiting, chronic tiredness and social anxiety which makes it impossible for me to live on my own.
Then not having a job is the least of your problems! Why would you lead off a thread with such a common setback and neglect to tell us what your real situation is? Come on.
So you have several serious, chronic disabilities. Are you able to socialize at all? Which of your problems prevents you from occasionally going out to group events like classes, cultural gatherings, clubs, or church services? Do you you go to physical therapy? Swim? Shop? Watch sports?
There are ways you can meet women if you look at the way your life is structured and make a little effort. There are meds and counseling for social anxiety.
There might be hope for you if you make the effort. But first concentrate on the basics. MAKE FRIENDS.
most people are looking to make lives of there own (not saying you do not have a life of your own) they are looking for people in similar situations who have a means to accomplish the life they seek.
its a little hard to do that when you have no means to accomplish it. its equally as hard when you have a disability "clouding" what people think or want from life.
if you want my honest advise, seek others with the same or similar disabilities as you as they are the best people to understand where you are coming from and getting past that initial barrier of being accepted. im sure if you looked you could find a support group and start meeting some great people
good luck!
I agree with this. Unemployment is probably not your main obstacle in finding a girlfriend. It sounds like it's your disability. I think it's a good idea to meet people through support groups.
If I don't have a job and still live with my parents because of a disability I'm having, should I just accept the fact that without a job I will never have a girlfriend?
I dont think that you need a job to have a girlfriend but you should have some goals and ambition in life.
If I don't have a job and still live with my parents because of a disability I'm having, should I just accept the fact that without a job I will never have a girlfriend?
I find it easier to get a girlfriend than a job lately, but I still focus on making sure that I am financially taken care of before I get romantically involved.
If you play MMORP games then I think you would probably find a girl there.
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