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Old 11-17-2012, 02:09 PM
 
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Girls I know said I'm too thin that I should gain some weight. Guys seem to like how I look. Not one guy said I should put on more weight ( maybe they're just being nice). I get approach when I go out and guys I've dated said I look sexy. I weigh 100lbs, 5'2 tall. I'm 32b, 23, 33. I'm not sure if I should keep the way it is or gain a few pounds. I'm into exercising and working out. I eat anything on weekends tho and I'm not a picky eater when I'm with friends or out on a date. But when I eat alone, I eat less and healthier.

I know some male friends who only date thin girls and girls have to have more boobs or more butt.
Guys, what body type is most attractive to you? Do you have a specific qualification when it comes to body measurement to consider a girl to be dateable? Do you like thicker on top or bottom? And what do you think of my size, do you think I should gain some weight? Thanks.
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Old 11-17-2012, 02:11 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Girls I know said I'm too thin that I should gain some weight. Guys seem to like how I look. Not one guy said I should put on more weight ( maybe they're just being nice). I get approach when I go out and guys I've dated said I look sexy. I weigh 100lbs, 5'2 tall. I'm 32b, 23, 33. I'm not sure if I should keep the way it is or gain a few pounds. I'm into exercising and working out. I eat anything on weekends tho and I'm not a picky eater when I'm with friends or out on a date. But when I eat alone, I eat less and healthier.

I know some male friends who only date thin girls and girls have to have more boobs or more butt.
Guys, what body type is most attractive to you? Do you have a specific qualification when it comes to body measurement to consider a girl to be dateable? Do you like thicker on top or bottom? And what do you think of my size, do you think I should gain some weight? Thanks.

So what is the problem then?
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Old 11-17-2012, 02:13 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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*cringe* I'm afraid to look at the responses.


OP, a "b" is usually enough to pass muster (there are lots of women who are an "a", who'd love to be in your shoes, er...cups...er...ackckk! never mind!) But seriously, you have the hourglass, that's all it takes. Don't mess with success.
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Old 11-17-2012, 02:21 PM
 
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Hip to waist ratio. Thats very important. I do like curvy girls. But that means curvy as in shaped like a hourglass not shaped like a 2 liter coke bottle. Don't let unhealthy people hijack the meaning of curvy. Curvy is good. Fat is not.

Thin can be fine, though have a body of a 12 year old boy is not attractive. You just need to hit the gym. Do some squats and deadlifts. Make sure you use perfect form and do it with heavy weight. If you commit to it and do the hard work, your butt will get noticeably bigger and firmer in a few months. So will your thighs. You can easily have thighs like a volleyball player if you commit to hard work in the gym.
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Old 11-17-2012, 02:27 PM
 
Location: Nantahala National Forest, NC
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If you hold yourself to some type of "ideal body type" you will always be disappointed. You have the body you have, just like the rest of us.

And really, do you WANT the kind of guy in your life who ACTUALLY CARES about such a shallow/non-issue?????



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Girls I know said I'm too thin that I should gain some weight. Guys seem to like how I look. Not one guy said I should put on more weight ( maybe they're just being nice). I get approach when I go out and guys I've dated said I look sexy. I weigh 100lbs, 5'2 tall. I'm 32b, 23, 33. I'm not sure if I should keep the way it is or gain a few pounds. I'm into exercising and working out. I eat anything on weekends tho and I'm not a picky eater when I'm with friends or out on a date. But when I eat alone, I eat less and healthier.

I know some male friends who only date thin girls and girls have to have more boobs or more butt.
Guys, what body type is most attractive to you? Do you have a specific qualification when it comes to body measurement to consider a girl to be dateable? Do you like thicker on top or bottom? And what do you think of my size, do you think I should gain some weight? Thanks.
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Old 11-17-2012, 02:27 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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re: capitol's post: That's ^^ not an hourglass. You're trying to get her into a pear shape. If guys are already happy with her shape, why should she change? Just to give into some strange girl-pressure? Her gf's are out of touch. If the guys say they're happy with her look, she's fine.
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Old 11-17-2012, 02:28 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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re: capitol's post: That's ^^ not an hourglass. You're trying to get her into a pear shape. If guys are already happy with her shape, why should she change? Just to give into some strange girl-pressure? Her gf's are out of touch. If the guys say they're happy with her look, she's fine.
Personally I like the tomato shape.
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Old 11-17-2012, 02:29 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Something like this.

http://www.elita.com/img/content/en_pro02.jpg

But the D is a big guy himself. Different strokes, different folks.
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Old 11-17-2012, 02:31 PM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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It doesn't matter to me.

I go more for the smile and eyes first. That will tell me a lot.

She has to have a brain, a mind of her own. I also like independent women.
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Old 11-17-2012, 02:33 PM
 
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I go more for the smile and eyes first. That will tell me a lot.

She has to have a brain, a mind of her own. I also like independent women.
Same here. A warm smile, and something intelligent to talk about.
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