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View Poll Results: How many of the following have you had in dating/love?
Zero - kill me now 3 6.52%
One 1 2.17%
Two 2 4.35%
Three - Hey, I could be those saps in 0,1,2 1 2.17%
Four 7 15.22%
Five 3 6.52%
Six 6 13.04%
Seven - Sooo close. 9 19.57%
Eight - Thangs aint bad after all 14 30.43%
Voters: 46. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 11-19-2012, 09:33 PM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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1) A major crush (physical) who returned your feelings
It happened twice. The second one which resulted in my one and only marriage was a mistake.

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2) A date to the prom
I did not go to my prom.

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3) Have a stranger come up to you (OF YOUR AGE) and call you beautiful/handsome?
Never.

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4) Been asked out on a date
Never. I'd like to experience this once before I die. I am not expecting it.

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5) Rejected somebody
I've had to do this but only a few times.

I was hit on by gay guys a few times.

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6) Friendzoned somebody (must be someone who was an ACTUAL friend)
No.

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7) Picked up/been picked up by someone at a bar/club for sex or romantic contact then or later
No.

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8) Had a one night stand
I'm defining this as a true one night stand - have sex when meeting for the first time with no contact afterwards.
That has never happened. I am not into one night stands.

Total: 2.
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Old 11-19-2012, 09:36 PM
 
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lol. The only guy who's had 1 of those questions answered with a yes.

I'm pathetic!
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Old 11-19-2012, 10:16 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Majority of people with much, much higher scores. I suppose that should be encouraging. Or saddening. I don't know.
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Old 11-19-2012, 10:27 PM
 
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lol. The only guy who's had 1 of those questions answered with a yes.

I'm pathetic!
My non-prom experience was a tough pill to swallow. I don't think some of the others counterbalanced that one.
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Old 11-19-2012, 10:32 PM
 
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My non-prom experience was a tough pill to swallow. I don't think some of the others counterbalanced that one.
I didn't feel like wasting the money, nor did I have a date for it at the time.

I didn't get too much flack for it though, some of my friends said something about it, but my parents didn't say anything.
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Old 11-19-2012, 11:26 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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1) A major crush (physical) who returned your feelings

2) A date to the prom

3) Have a stranger come up to you (OF YOUR AGE) and call you beautiful/handsome?

4) Been asked out on a date

5) Rejected somebody

6) Friendzoned somebody (must be someone who was an ACTUAL friend)

7) Picked up/been picked up by someone at a bar/club for sex or romantic contact then or later

8) Had a one night stand
1)No.
2)No. I only had one friend throughout HS and she had a date. She took pity on me and invited me along but I politely declined. She looked very relieved.
3)No. I do get compliments from elderly men here and there, though.
4)An actual date, with no physical expectations (i.e. a hookup) and for the sole purpose of getting to know each other and seeing if a relationship might form? No.
5) Yes, if you count offers for a physical only 'relationship' or much, MUCH older men (30+ years older than me)
6) No. Although I've been friendzoned plenty I have never rejected anyone and relegated them to friends only.
7) Attempted pickup? Yes. Pickup followed through? No.
8)Yes. And I've felt horrible and disgusted at myself ever since.


Sooooo, 2 for me.
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Old 11-20-2012, 06:46 AM
 
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lol. The only guy who's had 1 of those questions answered with a yes.

I'm pathetic!
I had one as well. Easily could have been zero if I span it a different way.

You're not alone!
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Old 11-20-2012, 10:23 AM
 
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1) Crush-yes, returned feelings-no.
2) Yes. I asked a friend to go with me.
3) No
4) Yes
5) Yes
6) No. I've always been the one put in the "friend zone."
7) Last guy I dated was a fellow Meetup member I met at an event at a bar. Other than that, I've never been approached at a bar/club.
8) Yes, sort of. He shall we say lost interest partway through.
You were just called pretty by another CD member on your profile page, so you can give yourself another point.

I agree, you are very cute.
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Old 11-20-2012, 10:29 AM
 
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Yes to all but 8. And kind of to 7, I've been picked up at a party and a bar but only to give my number for a date, not to have a #8.
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Old 11-20-2012, 05:42 PM
 
Location: Centennial, CO
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1) Yep. My current fiancee.

2) Yep, even though it was just a friend of a friend.

3) Yep.

4) Yep, but was taken at the time.

5) Plenty. Guys AND girls.

6) Yep, but she got over it.

7) For romantic contact dozens of times.

8) Nope. By choice, however. Had plenty of opportunities.

Could have been 8, but 7 out of 8 ain't bad.
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