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Old 11-29-2012, 02:26 PM
 
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She must need Christmas money.
LMAO!!! Now that was funny.
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Old 11-29-2012, 02:40 PM
 
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I think if you want a decent reply, you need to send a first message that is conversational. A compliment is not conversational, because the obvious response is "thanks", then it puts the burden of conversation on her or you have to reply back to the "thanks" with something deeper. Realize that women get several times first responses than men get, so you have to keep the ball rolling.

At least ask a couple questions. If she mentions in her profile she likes running, ask her where she likes to run. If she like museums ask her if shes been to X museum.
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Old 11-29-2012, 02:45 PM
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She must need Christmas money.

Or it could be that she wants to be educated on "Holiday Play"??
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Old 11-29-2012, 02:46 PM
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I think if you want a decent reply, you need to send a first message that is conversational. A compliment is not conversational, because the obvious response is "thanks", then it puts the burden of conversation on her or you have to reply back to the "thanks" with something deeper. Realize that women get several times first responses than men get, so you have to keep the ball rolling.

At least ask a couple questions. If she mentions in her profile she likes running, ask her where she likes to run. If she like museums ask her if shes been to X museum.

So give me an example of controversial?
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Old 11-29-2012, 03:06 PM
 
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So give me an example of controversial?

I said conversational.
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Old 11-29-2012, 03:07 PM
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I said conversational.

Oh my bad
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Old 11-29-2012, 03:31 PM
 
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So give me an example of controversial?
Nobody used the word controversial. Perhaps you are misreading messages on the dating sites as well.
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Old 11-29-2012, 03:36 PM
 
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Nobody used the word controversial. Perhaps you are misreading messages on the dating sites as well.
it was a Freudian slip. funny since i used conversation or conversational 3 times in a short post. i think he seeks out or just assumes conflict.
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Old 11-29-2012, 03:41 PM
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Nobody used the word controversial. Perhaps you are misreading messages on the dating sites as well.

Well If I can get this hot girl who sent me a message to tickle my neck with her pretty feet on a daily I may be able to take a break from online dating
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Old 11-29-2012, 03:58 PM
 
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Well If I can get this hot girl who sent me a message to tickle my neck with her pretty feet on a daily I may be able to take a break from online dating
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