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The real problem is that relationship worthy women are rarer than a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow. What else can we be expected to do but to continuously be looking?
You'd think finding an attractive, smart, and relaxed type of girl would be easier...but those girls don't make themselves easily available. So, you wade through the masses, indulging in a pick me up every now and again.
(Of course it doesn't help that even if a girl like that is found, you inevitably make mistakes...but, I guess, it hasn't happened for me for a reason.)
I don't see the men looking as better than the women available. They aren't any more/less interesting of people and the guys who generally trash on women aren't worthy of relationship worthy women.
I don't see the men looking as better than the women available. They aren't any more/less interesting of people and the guys who generally trash on women aren't worthy of relationship worthy women.
Massive egos. Is why they think these single men are sooooo much higher on the totem pole then the single women in the same situations. if they were so amazing or what not, then why are THEY still single? Exactly. So must not be 'pots of gold' either.
Massive egos. Is why they think these single men are sooooo much higher on the totem pole then the single women in the same situations. if they were so amazing or what not, then why are THEY still single? Exactly. So must not be 'pots of gold' either.
But duh, it's clearly every woman's fault for not wanting to deal with their bull**** and settle. Women are just too gosh darn demanding for their own good.
(And by "dealing with their bull****", obviously I mean "recognizing their greatness.")
But duh, it's clearly every woman's fault for not wanting to deal with their bull**** and settle. Women are just too gosh darn demanding for their own good.
(And by "dealing with their bull****", obviously I mean "recognizing their greatness.")
there's numerous examples I could give from here, where men either make these threads or posts and swear up and down a woman in the same circumstance has a 'simple fix 1,2,3' for her issue but his is a world wide disaster. God forbid. I don't know why they think their problems are so much more important, but they do and it's a very high number of them that think this. It's all over their posts.
The real problem is that relationship worthy women are rarer than a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow. What else can we be expected to do but to continuously be looking?
You'd think finding an attractive, smart, and relaxed type of girl would be easier...but those girls don't make themselves easily available. So, you wade through the masses, indulging in a pick me up every now and again.
(Of course it doesn't help that even if a girl like that is found, you inevitably make mistakes...but, I guess, it hasn't happened for me for a reason.)
I don't see the men looking as better than the women available. They aren't any more/less interesting of people and the guys who generally trash on women aren't worthy of relationship worthy women.
Well, I can't really speak to the first point because I don't know what makes a man look good to a woman...to me it seems like it's all really random from their end (beyond looks, money, status...that is..).
To be fair to women, men are even less interesting generally...so, in that respect, they are the more interesting sex...but that's because I'm biased...but after awhile you find the same general types and if you're looking for something more, it becomes difficult to know where to look for it...
As for your last point, as long as the girl in my life thinks I'm worthy of relationship worthy women, or really, just the one relationship worthy woman...I couldn't give two craps what you have to say on that...
The girl I had in mind when I wrote that is very...relaxed...is the best word for her disposition. Not easily "startled"...she knew who she was and was comfortable with it. She didn't look for approval...she let me go when I threatened to do so...she invited me back into her life when I wanted to be back in it...she was polite, but not a pushover...she stood her ground when I was being unreasonable...she knew her worth and wasn't willing to let me compromise it...she refused to let me redefine her...she was who she was and didn't apologize for it...but didn't think it put her above anyone else either...a very nice balance.
I guess, less wordily, she had her head on straight...
Seeing as theres pretty close to an equal amount of men and women on this planet, and there are 1 man and 1 woman in a relationship.. not counting gay people it's actually pretty dang close to being equal.
Well, I can't really speak to the first point because I don't know what makes a man look good to a woman...to me it seems like it's all really random from their end (beyond looks, money, status...that is..).
To be fair to women, men are even less interesting generally...so, in that respect, they are the more interesting sex...but that's because I'm biased...but after awhile you find the same general types and if you're looking for something more, it becomes difficult to know where to look for it...
As for your last point, as long as the girl in my life thinks I'm worthy of relationship worthy women, or really, just the one relationship worthy woman...I couldn't give two craps what you have to say on that...
Telling that you stipulate that 'the real problem is that relationship worthy women are rarer than a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow' yet when it comes to a man it's not two craps are given as long as he's relationship worthy to to the gal in his life. Amusing hypocritical bias.
Telling that you stipulate that 'the real problem is that relationship worthy women are rarer than a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow' yet when it comes to a man it's not two craps are given as long as he's relationship worthy to to the gal in his life. Amusing hypocritical bias.
I don't see it as being hypocritical...
I don't have to be relationship worthy to every girl...I only have to be relationship worthy to one girl...
But, from my singular perspective, most women aren't really compatible with me...(by their own admission, or by my assessment..)
Don't see that as being hypocritical as mush as I see it as being realistic...
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Massive egos. Is why they think these single men are sooooo much higher on the totem pole then the single women in the same situations. if they were so amazing or what not, then why are THEY still single? Exactly. So must not be 'pots of gold' either.