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Unless she's doing it for the fun and conquest of taking his virginity rather than her own sexual desire.
I'm not sure if she knows I'm a virgin or not, so its probably more along the lines of shes not JUST into girls. I just said lesbian because I couldnt really explain it all in the title. I know for a fact that she HAS been attracted to guys before, but in the last 3 years or so, I know shes only been with 2 or 3 girls on and off, and zero guys.
And to address the whole "what if she gets pregnant thing", I know this girl well enough to know that in the slight chance that she got pregnant, there is even a smaller chance that she would decide to keep it.
I never had a problem with the idea of having multiple sexual partners in my life, but I was never too keen on random hookups with girls I dont actually have any desires to date. I dont care about waiting till marriage, but I was always pretty set on wanting to actually have feelings for the girls I hookup with. I've had opportunities to lose my virginity before, but it was always girls I only had attraction to when I was really wound up, and I was afraid that if I did have sex with them, afterwards for a long time, I'd regret it. But now I'm starting to think, maybe I need to just do it so when it is someone I care about, I'm not COMPLETELY clueless.
A lot of people regret their first time (drunken hook up, the other person played them, etc.). Here's someone who you're friends with and I'm assuming you trust to some degree, that will assuage some of your anxiety if you have any and let you relax more. Plus the fact your both going into it knowing it's just sex is great regardless of what happens afterwards because you're being honest with your intentions.
Ignore other people's reactions and anyone who gives you a hard time about your first time being with this girl is a moron.
shes not a lesbian if she is in to guys as well...
im not sure what you want as a response either. if you like her and don't mind her and want to go for it, go for it. who cares, you had sex with a bisexual person whoppie doo. her sexuality has nothing to do with what you want.
seeing how you have trepidation already something tells me you already know this isn't what you want or who you wan t it with though. only you know for sure.
Last edited by rego00123; 11-27-2012 at 12:41 AM..
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I'm not arguing with you, I'm agreeing.
