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I see, so it bases on a regional area. That's good then because I'm a bit nerdy and introverted by nature, so I think I will definitely make a profile on OK and see how it goes. I'm guessing it's free right? Also I think once I can get a conversation rolling, it gets easier and easier to find common ground, and I fancy myself pretty good at that. It's starting the conversation in the first place that's most anxiety inducing.
Not to turn this into a race thread either but, that's not surprising that non whites would want to attract white women. I used to be like this, and I'm pretty ashamed of myself now. It comes from growing up in an environment where white was seen as the higher socio-economic class.
SO higher socio-economic class guarantees relationship? gotcha
SO higher socio-economic class guarantees relationship? gotcha
What? Your posts make no sense dude.
To clarify: what I meant by higher socio-economic class, was that since in the past century, for the most part, Caucasians have held the positions of political, social and economic power in many societies. My home country was colonized by the British for a long time, for example. This leads to a certain unconscious bias towards "being" white, about being upwardly mobile. Hence why so many, so many, Asian ladies seek white men exclusively.
I see, so it bases on a regional area. That's good then because I'm a bit nerdy and introverted by nature, so I think I will definitely make a profile on OK and see how it goes. I'm guessing it's free right? Also I think once I can get a conversation rolling, it gets easier and easier to find common ground, and I fancy myself pretty good at that. It's starting the conversation in the first place that's most anxiety inducing.
Not to turn this into a race thread either but, that's not surprising that non whites would want to attract white women. I used to be like this, and I'm pretty ashamed of myself now. It comes from growing up in an environment where white was seen as the higher socio-economic class.
I know there is an impression that women put a pic up and the messages start rolling in. But in reality there are a ton of variables at play. Age. Ethnicity. Attractiveness. Location..... It might be interesting to experiment with other metros, and see how your response differs.
I know a white woman, who is a little younger than I am. (Like 30) She gets loads of messages. Mostly from black and asian guys. Works for her, as she doesn't like white guys....
Not to turn this into a Bay Area thread....but there is definitely a different dynamic between the ethnic groups here than in other places, for lots of reasons. People in certain parts are "afraid" of certain ethnic groups. Moreso than in other places.
To clarify: what I meant by higher socio-economic class, was that since in the past century, for the most part, Caucasians have held the positions of political, social and economic power in many societies. My home country was colonized by the British for a long time, for example. This leads to a certain unconscious bias towards "being" white, about being upwardly mobile. Hence why so many, so many, Asian ladies seek white men exclusively.
I have a black friend who is now looking to date white guys because of that reason and I decided to not say anything about it because I will end up making her cry due to a heated argument. So it sounded like you were looking for a white guy because of the same reason which was funny since so many celebrities are getting divorces
I have a black friend who is now looking to date white guys because of that reason and I decided to not say anything about it because I will end up making her cry due to a heated argument. So it sounded like you were looking for a white guy because of the same reason which was funny since so many celebrities are getting divorces
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