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Old 01-28-2013, 09:38 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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Yea, I don't really like either one. My SOs ex is an evil one at best, a wench. We have been dealing with her forever and I think it has come to an end.

There are finally no more ties to her in the house or in our lives except for.....her bill collectors.

We have the phone set so that robot type calls cannot get through, only humans. You have to be able to punch in certain numbers to get through. You can't even answer the calls but you sure as heck hear them all day. Call from :Unavailable.

Well, I am always home and I get so tired of hearing the phone ring all day long. I called one back and let them know to stop calling, she doesn't live here. They stopped, but more and more are calling. If I had to guess, I would say that she uses this phone number when signing up for everything under the sun.

So now since all is said and done, I take the time to research where the call is coming from and give them a call back. It is time consuming but I've got nothing better to do, than be on here, so I do it. I call them back, and I stay on hold forever. My name and number do not match up with the name and home phone number. They ask if I can verify who it may be, so I do.

They take our number off of her account, and I forward her number to them.

She has caused quite the bit of trouble and talks to people with such disrespect. The least she could do is accept her calls and pay her bills, right?

I know it sounds awful, but she doesn't live here and they need to know where to call. That place is not here!

I don't like ex gfs and I don't like bill collectors, so I really don't like ex gfs bill collectors!
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Old 01-28-2013, 09:39 PM
 
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Why not just change your number? She doesn't live there anymore. You're under no obligation to deal with her mess.
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Old 01-28-2013, 09:42 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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Why not just change your number? She doesn't live there anymore. You're under no obligation to deal with her mess.
It's my bfs number and he has had it forever. I doubt he wants to change it and go through putting it in his parents phone out of state, etc.

His mom is having memory and confusion issues and that would just throw her through all sorts of loops.
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Old 01-28-2013, 09:48 PM
 
Location: FL
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I'd fix her real good and sign up for every freebie that came across my path and she'd need a wheelbarrow for all the junk mail and her phone would ring all day long.
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Old 01-28-2013, 09:51 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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I'd fix her real good and sign up for every freebie that came across my path and she'd need a wheelbarrow for all the junk mail and her phone would ring all day long.
For the things she did to my SO she deserves much more than that, but that is not my business. Only from where he and I began on out.

I have been very 'professional' in dealing with her. All these phone calls are just starting to drive me nuts, and it does feel good to let them know where they need to call....
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Old 01-28-2013, 09:56 PM
 
Location: FL
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For the things she did to my SO she deserves much more than that, but that is not my business. Only from where he and I began on out.

I have been very 'professional' in dealing with her. All these phone calls are just starting to drive me nuts, and it does feel good to let them know where they need to call....
Yeah, do enough call backs and after awhile it should die down. I miss my cable service where it puts the phone number on the TV screen as the call is made. If I didn't recognize it I wouldn't answer it.
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Old 01-29-2013, 12:15 AM
 
Location: Australia
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No one even has home phones here anymore.

We've all got cells so there's no point.

It stops all this sort of carp, it's great. No more Indians calling up either.
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Old 01-29-2013, 12:39 AM
 
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No one even has home phones here anymore.

We've all got cells so there's no point.

It stops all this sort of carp, it's great. No more Indians calling up either.
That's right, I think its been 3 years since I had a land line. Heck, I've even seen people change cell phone numbers for various reasons so it's no big deal to do it just to shake someone off your trail. don't allow yourself to be tortured anymore.
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Old 01-29-2013, 03:50 AM
 
Location: NoVa
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He keeps one. His parents do call here on it and all of his credit cards and things he is signed up to are attached to it. Bad thing is that so is hers. I have no problem forwarding her new number to these people....

Actually felt good this last one that calls the house 5 times a day every day of the week. I hope they are blasting her phone now. She should pay her bills.

She owes him thousands but I think he is just going to let it go to let it all be done with.
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Old 01-29-2013, 04:03 AM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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Distribute her number everywhere. I did this to a "friend" who stabbed me in the back and man was it fun. He was getting calls from porn subscription companies, random weirdos on Craigslist, and other sketchy place. So awesome. When they deserve it, they deserve it.
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