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View Poll Results: Sex...when is it the right time?
The first date 10 17.86%
After 2-4 dates 16 28.57%
After 5-9 dates 7 12.50%
After 10+ dates 8 14.29%
After marriage 15 26.79%
Voters: 56. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 11-27-2012, 04:43 PM
 
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There's no universal "time"
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Old 11-27-2012, 04:44 PM
 
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It's not really arbitrary to me, it's something I've never done. One night stands are a different issue altogether. I've just had a couple of experiences where I've had a second date with someone and the person was completely different from how they initially seemed and I realized they weren't someone I wanted to pursue. I just like to wait past the first date to make sure that they're someone I might want to continue dating. This applies only to people that I think have relationship potential. If I'm looking just to bang, I'll hit up a bar and use one of my eloquent pick up lines.
That makes sense, thanks.

ETA: I definitely consider one night stands and sex on a first date to be two completely different entities. I just don't feel that I should deny myself sex should I really want to have it.
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Old 11-27-2012, 04:45 PM
 
Location: Westminster, CO
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It's not really arbitrary to me, it's something I've never done. One night stands are a different issue altogether. I've just had a couple of experiences where I've had a second date with someone and the person was completely different from how they initially seemed and I realized they weren't someone I wanted to pursue. I just like to wait past the first date to make sure that they're someone I might want to continue dating. This applies only to people that I think have relationship potential. If I'm looking just to bang, I'll hit up a bar and use one of my eloquent pick up lines.
Women don't need eloquent pick up lines!
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Old 11-27-2012, 04:49 PM
 
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There's never a wrong time for sex.

It's the partner you choose to sex with that could be wrong, for a number of reasons.
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Old 11-27-2012, 05:39 PM
 
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For me personally, 10+ dates.
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Old 11-27-2012, 06:49 PM
 
Location: North of 60
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Women don't need eloquent pick up lines!
"Wanna f***?" is currently 1 for 1 success rate.
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Old 11-27-2012, 07:22 PM
 
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"Wanna f***?" is currently 1 for 1 success rate.
Makes sense.
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Old 11-27-2012, 07:53 PM
 
Location: Texas
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The title of this thread reminds me those cialis commercials "so you can ready when the moment is right" lol
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Old 11-27-2012, 07:59 PM
 
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It's not really arbitrary to me, it's something I've never done. One night stands are a different issue altogether. I've just had a couple of experiences where I've had a second date with someone and the person was completely different from how they initially seemed and I realized they weren't someone I wanted to pursue. I just like to wait past the first date to make sure that they're someone I might want to continue dating. This applies only to people that I think have relationship potential. If I'm looking just to bang, I'll hit up a bar and use one of my eloquent pick up lines.
So you want to avoid having sex with someone that you won't continue dating. But you're good with one night stands. We don't need no stinkin' logic!
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Old 11-27-2012, 09:08 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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When is it the right time to jump into bed after starting to date someone?
After a total of 12 hours and 34 minutes of dating.
It has nothing to do with the number of dates.

Any other answer is factually incorrect.
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